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Starting Young….Mundane Monday

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I watched the little lady struggle with her ball.

I bet the ball weighed more than she did, but she wouldn’t let anyone else get it 🙂

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Reflections…

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Reflections…

Enrich my soul

That it may find words to say

Fill my heart with things pure

That your goodness may reflect from me

Show yourself mighty in my life

So that all may see and know

That none who turns to you

Can remain shackled and enslaved.

Nor be turned away empty.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

This week, I stumbled upon a good number of posts that I would like to share with you:

What are your kids using from Fiddledeedee: A bit alarming, but we need to know these things.

Grass is always greener where you water it from Kaylaa: Very inspiring, motivating and well articulated.

You gotta jump to be successful from Kay Morris: This post and the message from Steve Harvey says it!

Today’s Inspirations from EttaD Are so much truth packed in little words.

The property laws of a toddler from Spartacus. This gave me a real good chuckle and it’s so true.

Speak life lesson craft from Rose A very simple and practical way to teach the young ones.

Ladies: 122 Reasons why chocolate is better than sex for women. A humourous post and has some rings of truth tucked in.

The story behind the song. Oba’s zeal always inspires me.

Regards to you all.

Challenges · Creative Writing · Life · Stream of Consciousness Saturday.

A Song Of The Taste Buds… Stream of consciousness Saturday

Food. Yes. It is one thing that we all partake of throughout our lives. It evokes a whole lot of good feelings and memories in most of us.

It is used to celebrate virtually every form of congregation known to man and as a former food business owner, it is a very profitable business, but also a slave master that requires so much work to produce a piece of delicacy that is consumed in a bite.

As though Linda is aware of my last night’s secrets of eating a little more helping from the buffet, with the prompt word ‘Food,’ I might as well confess and write the thoughts that I had when my eyes beheld the arrays of edible brilliance.

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The flowing fountain of chocolate

The decadent slices of creme brulee, creamy cakes and buttery cups of cream caramel

The offerings of fish dishes, pan-fried, battered, deep-fried baked or barbecued,

They all seemed, fluffy and delicious, asking for a taste.

Rice in such designs, from vegetable, to plain, to white, to curry, it’s all nice

The sauteed meats and the not so laughing cow

Giant shrimps and huge prawns with beady eyes,

The crabs claws looks set to give the fingers a pinch

The steam rising from the chaffing dishes,

Disseminating the flavourful aroma of dishes a plenty

Mashed potatoes to go with black pepper sauce

Artichokes, Mushrooms, Broccoli, Lettuce and so much more

Pot roast, meatloaf, clam chowders oh my

All the drool inducing platters

An orchestra to ravenous appetite

The soft music plays on as we rotate round the food circle

A bite, a sip of drink and laughter

The elation on the faces of the consumers, says it all

The conviviality in the air

Our senses all dancing to the beat of our stomach

And the siren call of the food platter.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Blog · Family · Memes · Musings · Personal · Uncategorized

Bliss…

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Bliss is waking up late on a beautiful Saturday morning, lounging in bed, cocooned beside the warm body of your loved one and talking about everything and nothing.

Bliss is eating a robust, nutritious home-made breakfast, smiling about nothing and everything, and generally feeling happy.

That’s my bliss. So, what’s your  bliss 😉 ?

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Life · Parenting

Eye’s Speak Volumes…

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Look me in the eyes

So that I may see into your heart

Whisper to me the loves songs

That radiates in your pupils

So that their echoes may make my blood thrum

When two hearts are in love

We have no need for so much words

For your eyes speak volumes

That your mouth cannot put into shape

Yet it makes my body sing.

Back in the days, my mother did a lot of speaking to us with her eyes. For instance, when we go out and someone offers us a cookie, you have to look at dear mother’s face, before daring to accept that cookie and the gleam in her eyes or the nod of her head will tell you what to do.

No words said! Sometimes, you might make a mistake in translating the meaning of that look and wolf down the biscuit.

You will surely have some explaining to do. One scrumptious cookie might not be worth all the drilling questions that you will have to answer to.

So if you are not too sure, you simply say, ‘No thank you Ma’ to the biscuit tender even if drool is pooling in your mouth.

Naturally, I love being around people and would talk to total strangers. In a safe environment of course because there are so many crazies in this time and age.

Sometimes, I go people watching, where I will see a large crowd of human beings going about their lives.

I may say nothing, but just let the cacophony of their words wash over me.

A snippet overheard here and there could trigger a memory, an inspiration, a story or more.

Sometimes, I wish I could do a documentary of some of the fascinating humans that I have come across.

It’s been a while that I had a girls night out with friends, where we would dance, laugh and shout on top of our voices.

No one hears what they other is saying, but we leave for our homes and husbands, happy as larks.

When it comes to serious talk, I like a one-on-one, where I can listen quietly, read your nuances and get a clear meaning of what you are trying to transmit.

The ideal conversation depends on the occasion, what is being discussed and also the people involved.

I also happen to love being left alone by myself. I am never bored being all alone because I have perfect conversations with myself and the many voices in my head.

No! I am not crazy like that. I don’t know if I am normal, but that’s fine. I don’t care if the ship with the normal people left without me a long time ago.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

The Daily Post prompt Counting Voices.

A lively group discussion, an intimate tête-à-tête, an inner monologue — in your view, when it comes to a good conversation, what’s the ideal number of people?

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Featured Blogs #5…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

So late so soon from JoHanna Massey a lovely read and you will enjoy JoHanna’s company

Silly Old Sod You will enjoy Trev’s grumpliciousness I tell ya.

Gharkepakwan Parul knows how to whip up healthy and nutritious vegetarian dishes with a twist of exotic 😉

Msnubutterflies Beautiful Shannon faces Multiple Sclerosis like an Amazon.

Joy Indestructible My one and only Pam. A beautiful soul through and through.

Welcome to the war from Starlit Octave. A very poignant piece from Sam.

Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.

Do you want more eyes on your words?

Well then, add your LINK into this loop.

Regards.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

P.S. Comments are disabled here. You can add your link through the link in the post. It’s easier to be able to collate them that way. Thank you.

Frivolous Friday · Memes · Uncategorized

It’s A Wrap Folks…Frivolous Friday

It's Been A Long Week:

 

Have a blessed, happy and beautiful weekend.

You deserve it.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Image credit: Pinterest

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Featured Blogs #4…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

Today’s featured blogs are:

My money counts Introducing Pamela. She is relatively a newbie in our midst. Please show some love.

I can’t speak up myself will you by Fleeting Muse a blog that expresses fine poetry and writing inspired by ethereal feelings, life events and personal philosophy.

 Wallace’s Official Website and Thoughts, Musings and Storytelling a prolific writer with sage counsel and a good sense of humour. I call him Sir Wallace.

Sptchmom777 She’s got inspiring posts in spades.

Confessions of a shamsite Introducing Gloria. A recent follow whom I am getting to know and like her positive attitude. I like positive things.

Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.

Do you want more eyes on your words?

Well then, add your LINK into this loop.

Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

P.S. Comments are demobilized here. You can add your link through the link in the post. It’s easier to be able to collate them that way. Thank you.

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Featured Blogs #3…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

Spartacus2030. Have you been to see him yet? You should.

No judging from not the average mama. I think we all need to read this!

The Road Less Traveled from Dancing Palm Trees . A lady to admire. An ex U.S. Army veteran.

Run baby run from Oba * This is my comment on this article*  ‘Girl, you can write it! Well enunciated story. I saw you dashing off in my mind and yes the dividend of a race well run is quite rewarding. Great article.’

You need to get to know Ariana Her determination might infect you 🙂

Surprise, Surprise from A Striving Mom like you and I. I love surprises and I am sure you do 🙂

Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.

Do you want more eyes on your words?

Well then, add your LINK into this loop.

Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Quotes For You · Writer's Quote Wednesday · Writer's Quote Wednesday · Writing

My Writers Cold Feet…

This is my first attempt at Silver’s Writer’s Quote Wednesday and I shall dip my feet into the water with this quote that resonates with me.

‘Writing a book is a horrible, exhausting struggle, like a long bout of some painful illness. One would never undertake such a thing if one were not driven on by some demon whom we can neither resist nor understand.’ George Orwell

I don’t know how many times that I have read this quote and I care not to count. All I know is that whenever I come across it, I nod my head vigorously.

When people are reading the written works of others, they have absolutely no idea the amount of drive, discipline, zeal, craziness and a whole myriad of emotions and actions that are invested in that work.

It is an arduous tiresome and thankless task, yet the muse in you will not let your mind keep quiet or sleep if you don’t put down those words.

Most times, writing short notes, stories, poems and essays are easier by far and more fun than writing a book.

Sometimes, I set off writing something and find myself surprised at where I ended up.

I have three manuscripts of novels at different stages sitting on my desk and staring malevolently at me and yet, some days it’s just a drag to get editing and working at it.

I have run around in circles to circumvent doing this painful task and I am running out of ideas.

One is at 95% completion, the other 70 and another at 50 percent and the characters in these books are ganging up and threatening my life with all sorts of things.

I am using the excuse that I am putting my poetry book together to stall them.

I know that there will be mutiny in the near future when the poetry book and the motivational books are done.

Maybe then, they will seize my clothes!

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha