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Featured Blogs 9…. Lets’ Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

Let’s count to infinity Can you do the count?

Life of badges  I would like to introduce Peter to you. A new found friend on mine in this space. I have enjoyed a number of his thoughtful posts and limericks. Please show some love.

Confession time Anna’s confessions. I couldn’t believe it myself 😉

Cut to the chase A fabulous reading series from Kay Morris that I have been following for a while. I actually watch out for the post so that I can keep up with Lainey’s story.

My humble opinion about cheap tomatoes from Websaladbar. I am not American, but something about this post got my knickers in a twist.

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Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Leaping Along…personal

My new skipping rope. The previous one was a killer rope in it's past life.
My new skipping rope. The previous one was a killer rope in it’s past life.

So here I am seated in-between Sugoi and Umami, two Far East Urban Cuisine/Japanese and trying to decide what to eat as well as checking my mails when I see Colette’s challenge sent to me to leap and the Daily post prompt to leap as well, so I will kill two birds with one stone.

Don’t think that I am a food addict. A girl has to eat to keep the brain cells functional and aside from a bowl of porridge and currants this morning, this is a late lunch of my decision, veggie rice and teriyaki prawns.

I enjoy the drone of voices. It’s amazing when you keep silent and just listen to the cacophonous buzz around you. My thoughts takes me back to the beginning of the year and how far I am leaping along.

Thinking about leaping made start looking at people’s feet as they passed by, for silly reasons. No one was leaping out-rightly, just a scurry, a flinch, a waddle and a slow trot.

Where have I leaped to between Jan and now?

I tried to leap high, but feared that I would break a precious bone, so I just hopped along.

  • I just bought a new skipping rope, a few minutes ago. Very apt for leaping out of a month. I will obviously leap a lot in March.
    The last one I had was used for drilling young recruits in its past life. It kept flogging the back of my legs *no jokes* when I didn’t skip high enough, that I had to ask myself if the punishment was worth the result?
  • So, I finally finished collating my poetry book and hopefully, by next week, I will seek professional assistance with editing and book cover. The plan is to have it out between March and April, so it’s right on track and I can tick the box for hopping along with my set target to have four of my published works out this year.

Yes, I know its a tall challenge, but I believe in setting a high bar for myself so that even if I fail to meet all, I fail forward by achieving a good percentage.

  • I hopped to a writer’s critic group and asides from parting with too many dirhams buying coffee and sandwich, watching people feel snazzy and writer-like with the interesting hair-dos and streaks of colours, and a huge dragon tattoo running from one shoulder into her bosom *I didn’t get to see the bosom* but the dragon did, and a lot of Shisha smoking all around, I really didn’t get much out of the experience, so I am quite doubtful that I will repeat the experience.
  • I dared to submit one of my stories for a competition. The results don’t come out till March, though in all honesty, I am not expecting anything, since the whole World, their wives, pet garter snakes, dogs and cats made an appearance. A cool cat is most likely going to win the prize. I did it to push myself out of my comfort zone and get over the jitters.
  • The weight hasn’t shifted downwards, but it hasn’t gone up thankfully.
  •  Blogging is coming along nicely 🙂

I am ruminating over my personal goals for March, so let me trundle along and get cracking.

So, who would like to leap off the board with me? A short note will do just fine

Colette, thank you for making me look and appreciate my steps.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

The Daily Post Prompt Leap.

P.S. A silly video of the drone of voices and the occasional feet.

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Featured Blogs #7…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

Sweet Aroma. One of my favorite grandma’s in blogosphere. Oneta is my sage friend, with beautiful stories of life to tell. I always imagine sitting beside her and cradling a cup of warm drink while she regales me with her humour, tales and anecdotes.

Home and Loving It. A blog that delights me with the simple quotes offered and a glimpse into Renee’s life through her words.

Fabulous Fit Mamas. Introducing you to Michelle whom I met recently. A fit mama full of positive vibes and motivating words. She does get it done.

Femininematerz. My dear Bisi is a blogger with a warm heart and friendly mien. Her passion is the welfare of the today’s woman and how to live a fulfilled life. She connects them with the stories.

Spiritual Journey We all search for things that inspire, motivate and drive our journey’s of self-discovery. As the name implies, the blog has a way of instilling calm in my mind once I see it.

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Regards.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Featured Blogs #6….Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

Michelle Malone Introducing Michelle, a new blogger in our midst. An intelligent lady, whose articles I find engaging.

Barb CT Join on an expedition through knotholes and textures of life, it’s bumps, cracks and all.

Live, Learn, Change A beautiful personal read from Alexis ‘Why we married young.’

Awesome Ideas 2003 An up and growing delightful blog from Mahjabeen.

Star Scrolls Astrid words makes me sit up straight.

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Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Midnight Motivation And Musings #18

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There are times when we are inadvertently hit by blows that destiny sends our way. Blows that we may never have been in a position to deflect, but one thing is that we can choose our attitude towards how the rest of our lives continues after these experiences.

Are we going to be stuck on the ‘Woe is me junction?’ Filled with bitterness and the bile of it all?

What purpose will that serve? None! Except building up the bile and angst, which is dangerous for our wellness and state of being.

Now, there are also incidents and hurts inflicted on us by others and we bear grudges the size of a mountain for them.

That’s giving someone rent free space in your head. Space that could be used for better things than dwelling on bitterness that takes us nowhere.

Forgiving them does not mean that you have forgotten the lesson learnt from the bitter experience, but it’s a way of setting yourself free.

Allowing these bitterness to dictate your life means that you will always remain in the victim mindset loop.

Cut yourself loose. Whatever it will take to get your life back, talk about it, cry about it, write about it, pray about it…..

….Set your heart free and get your life back.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Featured Blogs #5…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

So late so soon from JoHanna Massey a lovely read and you will enjoy JoHanna’s company

Silly Old Sod You will enjoy Trev’s grumpliciousness I tell ya.

Gharkepakwan Parul knows how to whip up healthy and nutritious vegetarian dishes with a twist of exotic 😉

Msnubutterflies Beautiful Shannon faces Multiple Sclerosis like an Amazon.

Joy Indestructible My one and only Pam. A beautiful soul through and through.

Welcome to the war from Starlit Octave. A very poignant piece from Sam.

Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.

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Regards.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Zooming By Through The Years….

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There are really some days that I wish that time is not an intangible object, but something that could be adjusted to fit one’s purpose through the years.

There are days that my to do list is as tall as my 5 ft 11″ if not taller and there is insufficient time to get it all done in one day. There is so much to do and so little time.

Sometimes I sincerely wish that these years will go at a snail pace, so that I will have enough time to savour those I love through the years.

You wake up in the morning and before you turn around it’s evening and the day has just flown past, which is why the phrase of making hay while the Sun shines never fails to reverberate in my mind.

Even if you refused to make the hay, time will still zoom by and the bales of hay to be made still awaits you.

I can remember when I was a small girl which seems like yesterday, and people in their thirties seemed ancient to me.

I can never forget a would be suitor *arranged marriage* that came seeking for my hand when I was barely 18. He was a doctor in his 30’s residing in Italy and I can still recall my horror at the thought of marrying someone who was possibly my fathers age.

Now, here I am, older, wiser, yet still very young in my head at times.

Sometimes, I do nothing, but just ponder over the essence of time and life.

Would I wake up one day and find that I have been dreaming my life all along?

Ever since my sense of how fast time goes by became acute, I try to make each day count, live in each moment and get the best that I can out of it.

With the conscious reality that the best things in life are for free, the onus rests on me to endeavour to enjoy these best things as much as life makes available to me.

There is no time to spend over inane issues. We can’t stop time, but we can embrace what we have and be the pilot’s of our given moments.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

The Daily Post Pace Oddity

If you could slow down an action that usually zooms by, or speed up an event that normally drags on, which would you choose, and why?

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Featured Blogs #4…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

Today’s featured blogs are:

My money counts Introducing Pamela. She is relatively a newbie in our midst. Please show some love.

I can’t speak up myself will you by Fleeting Muse a blog that expresses fine poetry and writing inspired by ethereal feelings, life events and personal philosophy.

 Wallace’s Official Website and Thoughts, Musings and Storytelling a prolific writer with sage counsel and a good sense of humour. I call him Sir Wallace.

Sptchmom777 She’s got inspiring posts in spades.

Confessions of a shamsite Introducing Gloria. A recent follow whom I am getting to know and like her positive attitude. I like positive things.

Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.

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Well then, add your LINK into this loop.

Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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Featured Blogs #3…Let’s Create A Fine Chain.

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Today’s featured blogs are:

Spartacus2030. Have you been to see him yet? You should.

No judging from not the average mama. I think we all need to read this!

The Road Less Traveled from Dancing Palm Trees . A lady to admire. An ex U.S. Army veteran.

Run baby run from Oba * This is my comment on this article*  ‘Girl, you can write it! Well enunciated story. I saw you dashing off in my mind and yes the dividend of a race well run is quite rewarding. Great article.’

You need to get to know Ariana Her determination might infect you 🙂

Surprise, Surprise from A Striving Mom like you and I. I love surprises and I am sure you do 🙂

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Regards

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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A Blog Post To Two Men…

This is an impromptu blog post that came to my mind and I just have to write it. Maybe, there are more men like you in blogosphere and that would be a good thing to find. I am looking for them.

Jason and Danny, I appreciate your sense of community and support. We all have our personal goals and drive in this place and as consuming as this passion of ours is, you still find the time to carry those around you along.

Please note, this is not a fan or worship note. I don’t do such, but I know when to appreciate a good thing once I see it. I have noticed some who are far too consumed about themselves, forgetting that it takes an entire village of bloggers to raise one blogger.

At every point in time that I have had reason to reach out to either of you, you unflinchingly respond.

You two are awesome and I wish you both the very best.

Regards,

Jacqueline