A whole lot of times, for fear of being hurt, or losing out, we choose to sit on the fence rather than dabbling and trying our best.
Easy does it quite alright and it’s essential to exercise caution before jumping into any venture or as the case may be a relationship.
However, we cannot because of previous bad experience rule out every other opportunity to try again.
Like my people would say, we cannot because of fear of shooting, avoid going to war when the need arises. For example, the fact that Tim broke your heart, doesn’t mean John will do so. For all you know, John might be that partner you’ve been seeking for.
Secondly, because one business endeavour failed, you cannot write off all other possibilities with the wave of the hand.
Rather, it makes more sense to apply the learnings from the previous experience, that way, you stand a better chance at succeeding.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Well said.
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Thank you Pamela
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Yes yes yes. I personally love the saying: “Experience is the best teacher.” I’m so thankful to have lived long enough to be able to swear by this saying. Yes yes yes!!!
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It really is the best teacher. Thank you Jen 🙂
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It is true Jacqui. 🙂
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Thank you dear 🙂
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I think Dray’s post on Jim Carrey’s commencement speech made the point – we can fail at stuff we hate doing, so we might as well take a chance on the things we love. Thanks for the inspiration!!!
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Now that’s a good quote. Thank you Debra 🙂
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OMG – you gotta watch Jim Carrey’s commencement speech – he was unbelievably meaningful. And funny.
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Very true!
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So true. Never stop trying, even when you had failed a million times.
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Great advice! Fear has killed more dreams than just about anything else you can name.
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You’ve taken the words out of my mouth. Don’t block your blessings. I was just blessed today with something I will never forget (check out my recent post). Blocking my blessings set me in circles, repeating the same steps, but never achieving what I truly wanted to achieve. Your post just affirmed the retrieval of my blessing today.
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Very well said Kanesha. I will take a peek in to read 🙂
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