A whole lot of times, for fear of being hurt, or losing out, we choose to sit on the fence rather than dabbling and trying our best.
Easy does it quite alright and it’s essential to exercise caution before jumping into any venture or as the case may be a relationship.
However, we cannot because of previous bad experience rule out every other opportunity to try again.
Like my people would say, we cannot because of fear of shooting, avoid going to war when the need arises. For example, the fact that Tim broke your heart, doesn’t mean John will do so. For all you know, John might be that partner you’ve been seeking for.
Secondly, because one business endeavour failed, you cannot write off all other possibilities with the wave of the hand.
Rather, it makes more sense to apply the learnings from the previous experience, that way, you stand a better chance at succeeding.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha