Mummy, I want to let you know what you mean to me.
You are like an Angel in the sky
Even at night you shine as bright as a star.
I want you to know, I love you mummy.
Why do I do these gratitude challenges every week? So that I don’t forget to pay mind to the little things that I would have probably taken for granted in the bigger scheme of life’s rat race.
It’s done as an open confession of little positive affirmations in my life, both online and real time. Of course it can be done through private journals *I still do that*, but then an opportunity would be missed to inspire even one person to embrace the attitude of gratitude.
The private journal practice becomes easy to forget or set aside at times when life gets hectic and we continue to roll along until it is completely left unsaid.
This way, I am compelled to pause and appreciate these things openly. It’s like unwrapping a present.
The attitude of gratitude has expanded the coast of my mind and it keeps growing in very positive ways. I find that more and more, I dwell barely on negativity because it’s almost as if my mind is on training on how to swat negative thoughts.
Ordinarily, I would probably have taken for granted the small hands that helped me push my shopping cart, weigh my fruits and tick off my shopping list *making me buy one or two extra tidbits, with a grumble and secret delight.
How will I take for granted how you all supported my blog party over the weekend?
Try cooking a large array of dishes (in this case, blogging hard for days) and inviting people to eat and they don’t turn up. You will be sorely disappointed and upset.
The essence of Valentine might have become subsumed in the cheesy commercial aspect of things, but there is absolutely nothing cheesy about the extra doses of love and attention that I received from my family, from hand-made cards to shop bought rose and chocolate with their pocket money, coupled with lots of pampering 🙂
There are so many little things to be grateful and thankful for. What are the things that decorate your life, be they little or large?
You can join Colline’s or Maria Jansson gratitude challenge platforms.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
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This is such a sweet lovely note! Was it from one of your children? 🙂
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Yes it is, a handmade Valentine card. It gladdened my heart 🙂 Thank you
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Awesome! It touches my heart too! 🙂
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Thanks dear. Have a good day today 🙂
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You too! ❤️❤️❤️
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This was really sweet. Thank you for reminding us to be thankful. The card reminds me of my own childhood drawings and the sweet “surprises” my daughter whips up for me. It made me smile. Thanks.
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These young ones do decorate our lives beautifully. Thank you Rose 🙂
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Yes. They sure do
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I think thankfulness takes room so the negatives won’t have ROOM to stay
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Very true Sarah 🙂
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It seems your kid inherited your gift for words. ❤ This is sooo cute and touching.
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It’s seems to be turning out that way because my husband is a man of not too many words.Thank you Rosema. I was tickled happy 🙂
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Oh. So they surely got it from you! Yay! ❤
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That is a beautiful card Jacqui and must have melted your heart. 🙂
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It totally did Judy. Thank you my dear 🙂
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So sweet! How important it is to find ways to be grateful!
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We really have to be. It’s better that way 🙂
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This is so adorable. I couldn’t have thought of anything better than this on a valentine’s.
You’re a lucky one, Jacqueline. :’)
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I felt wonderfully pampered. Thanks dear 🙂
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It is the little things that later become the big memories in our lives. Lovely post.
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Quite true. Thank you my kind Sir 🙂
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I love the handmade Valentine’s card and the message. It’s clear that beautiful use of language starts early in your family 🙂
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It does appear so with the words. I am cherishing such little mementos and keeping them, because one day they will grow older and run after girls 😉 Thanks Bun
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I understand. I keep all the stuff my kids make too. 🙂
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It’s a good idea because we can go back and look at them from time to time 🙂
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A beautiful home to clean, a beautiful husband to cuddle, a beautiful child to nurture, a beautiful dog to pet, beautiful music to make, a beautiful car to drive, a beautiful job to do, a beautiful body to keep, a beautiful mind to challenge, a beautiful day to enjoy, and a beautiful God to worship! What a wonderful life!!
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I love these words of yours Michelle. I have tried going to your blog ‘upward spiral,’ but it keeps telling me that it no longer exists.
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