In my place, there is a saying which states that ‘when you agree, your God agrees with you.‘
A blogversation that I had recently with an awesome blogger brought back this saying that my dad used ever so often back to my mind and I spent a little time dwelling on the thought of it’s meaning.
As a child whose parents used lots of proverbs to buttress a point, I never quite understood some of what they were trying to say to me then, but as time went on, these kernels of words planted have been germinating profusely and I find wisdom tucked inside them.
It is a common belief back in my place that each person has their own little ‘Chi’ or ‘God’, also perceived as a guardian Angel and that whatever limitations the person sets for themselves, that is equally where their God will set himself.
If you buy into the myopic view of a misguided person that you are not good enough, then you will remain so.
If you set limitations for yourself with all the usual excuses: because I am poor, black, brown, fe/male, tall, short, etc, you will not grow past your limitations. To grow past them you have to stop agreeing to the negative feedback of ‘You Can’t.’
‘What are you agreeing to?’
There is no disputing the fact that there are socio-economic challenges, gender limitations, race boundaries and all the conceivable ceilings out there that hinders us from breaking through the invisible barriers to our perceived success, but wait a minute.
What of the glass ceiling that you have placed on your own mind? No one else will break through it and free you other than yourself.
In as much as there are things we are unable to stop from happening, we have the will power to choose how we react to these things.
Do we remain victims of our own minds, or do we break free from the bounds of mind enslavement of whatever it is that we are agreeing to and become victors?
The choice is yours. What are you agreeing to? What ever it is, is what your God will agree to as well.
I shall leave these little quotes here for you to dwell on.
‘It is not what you are called, but what you answer to.’ African proverb
‘As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.‘ Proverbs: 23.7
‘Be careful how you are talking to yourself, because you are listening.‘ Lisa M. Hayes
For the quotes challenge invitation, I thank Kaushal of Expressive Human for the invitation, and would like to invite the following awesome bloggers to participate in the 3 days, 3 quotes challenge.
No pressures at all to do so.
The rules are:
- Post 3 Quotes on 3 consecutive days.
- Thank the person who nominated you.
- Nominate 3 other bloggers on each day of challenge.
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Beautiful truth, Jacqueline. I think a back-lash of political correctness is learned helplessness. We can’t allow ourselves to be defined by labels. Ingesting them is deadly. You had wonderful parents. They gave you what you needed to shine!:0)
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I must say that they truly did their best. Political correctness is gradually destroying society.
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Loved this–we do limit ourselves by what inner dialogues we carry around. We gotta keep those in check! Great post!
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True Gabriela. Note to myself often. My appreciations for your words.
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Reblogged this on Talmidimblogging.
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I just love these proverbs and certainly food for thought. Thank you so much for sharing!
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Thank you Sofia. Sometimes, I mull over stuff like this and find a lot of meaning in them. My regards.
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Thought provoking proverbs and so very true. Sometimes we get so critical of ourselves that we forget we are listening!
Thank you for the reminder!
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I honestly have to drag myself out of that critical mode all the time. Thank you too for visiting and your comments.
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Just want to say…thank you!!!
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((Hugs)) have a beautiful, lazy weekend 🙂
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Very interesting! One of my favorite motivational speakers, Randy Gage, once said “Only knowledge limitations in order to overcome them. Only hold on to the limitations you plan to keep.” I’m trying to live by that. We all have them.
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I like that quote Maria. Makes loads of sense. Keep only the ones that you plan to keep.
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YES! 🙂
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Wonderful proverbs Jacqui that are sound advice indeed! 🙂
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The old folks had lots of them to dish out, even though when I was younger they made little sense to me 😉
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It’s only older that we appreciate their wisdom. 🙂
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I like how you suggest we should think positively despite our limitations. And I agree we always have the power of how we react to a situation, even if we didn’t put ourselves in the situation. You are a wise woman Jacqueline.
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We really can Mandi. It takes effort though but with time and constant reminding we are able to. Thank you my dear for your kind words 🙂
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It’s all about not receiving any negative energy from others or even our negative thoughts. Easier said than done sometimes but at the end, GOD inside of us always wins. Great post sis!
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Yes Sis. As much as we are capable, we should diffuse or refuse to receive any negative energy. Not easy though but with conscious and consistent effort, we can achieve a lot in that direction.
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How could you know that’s exactly what I needed to hear all day! Excellent post, Jacqueline.
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Thank you very much my dear Lady. It is also an advice to myself. Have a blessed weekend.
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Truth be told, this is the truth. You rise to the expectations you set on yourself. We gotta be positive in our strive to be better versions of ourselves. Continue to spread wisdom Jacqueline 🙂
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Yes we rise to it if we try. Thank you Carlos. Blessings.
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Those are wonderful quotes! Your dad sounds like he is/was an awesome parent. 🙂
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He was a true gem of a soul. I miss him every day.
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🙂 It’s a blessing to have wonderful memories to remember him by.
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