The Daily Post Photo promptΒ One Love.






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Thoughts and Tales…A Lifestyle Blog with a Zing.
The Daily Post Photo promptΒ One Love.






Finding solitude in this bee-hive of a city, is literally akin to finding a needle in a haystack or seeing a camel trying to squeeze it’s hoof through the eye of the needle.
Well, that was my thought initially, until I started looking through thousands of photos and luckily found a few pictures that depicted solitude for today’s Photo 101 theme ‘solitude.’
I wasn’t sure that I would catch any solitary looking people today, especially with the particularly gray looking weather that we have, so I dug into my photos and found some reasonable offering.
Solitude is also not when one is all by himself, but equally a state of the mind.
A person can be in a crowd and yet feel all alone.
Β© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
On Thursdayβs, I share pictures about βEchos of my Neighbourhood.
I would like to invite you to participate. The challenge is quite simple.
Every Thursday, share a photo of bits and pieces of wherever you are at any point in time. It could be houses, backgrounds of your neighbourhood, activities and so forth and you can tag it Echos of my Neighbourhood, add my link to your post so that I will get the ping from your post.
Every other Thursday, I will publish a post with the links of all those who participated the previous week.
This is just a fun way of getting to see more of the World around us through your eyes, since we cannot all be at those places, we can at least see them through you.
The pictures above are taken from here and there. During the course of a week, I take pictures as I go along sorting each day’s issues.
When I am going out by myself, I prefer to leave the ease of driving myself and opt to take a train, bus or taxi depending on. The first two are my first options.
In a good number of areas, the bus stops have a pair of shelter, one for women and children and a separate one for menfolk. Due to the heat which can be unbelievable at times, they are air-conditioned and well maintained.
IfΒ you want to get to know a city, to meander free and get to know it’s people, get a map and use public transport.
It free’s your eyes to stare, snap and interact.
When I drive, half of the time, my eyes are glued to the GPS screen trying not to miss a vital turn.
Β© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Last Week Echoes gave us some peeks of different neighbourhoods, hop on let’s go see and do show some of yours π
Ladylee ManilaΒ shows us some beautiful looks of Manila.
ObaΒ takes us up close and personal to her neighbourhood in Lagos.
Deb of BookygloverΒ catches good snips of my Lagos and it’s eccentric nature.
Dollops of heedful ramblingsΒ showcases beautiful art walls.
Murals andΒ Soulful strutΒ are eclectic shotsΒ from urban gypsy.
Cherry blossomsΒ pretty as a picture photos from Paula.
Giggles & TalesΒ Denmark is good for a visit. There’s decadent chocolate and wine too.
Kat‘s photos makes me want to sing a song. Yes, they are beautiful.
The wishing wellΒ Colette introduces us to her Nottingham. Welcome Colette π
Areas of lifeΒ Mandi’s quite the lady. Her collection makes me smile and those tot photos are priceless.
Thoughts and entanglementsΒ There’s something so satisfying about this picture.
Writing in North NorfolkΒ Kim has wonderful neighbours π
I hope you enjoy the views.
Regards.
Today’s theme for Photo 101 is bliss. Well, it falls in rather nicely today. Yesterday it rained ceaselessly that the school sent a mail of no school today, so yours truly started having bliss from last night at the thought that I don’t have to jump up at 4:30 in the morning. Yours truly lounged in bed. Now that is bliss π
My source of bliss are derived from the simple satisfaction that I can find in the daily life around me.
I make a conscious effort to cultivate a heightened sense of contentment and each source depends totally on my frame of mind.
Something as little as seeing a happy dog, gives me a sense of joy.
Below are some things that signify bliss for me.
Water. What an apt theme for today’s Photo 101 course. It’s raining quite sensibly over here, with the rumbles of thunder growling in the background and there’s something about the elements that makes me feel so alive.
My mind is lost in a maze of thoughts and feelings as I tap to the drip-drop of the rainfall and the rumbles. Β It simply makes me want to chatter over a nice cup of coffee.
It reminds me of naked and carefree days as a child dancing with glee in the rain and singing ‘rain, rain, go away,’ with my siblings and the neighbours kids, to our mothers dismay when they eventually caught us.
Rainy days reminds me of early days of learning to give myself a bath as a kid and my concentration point was to scrub my tummy over and over until my mother took over the sponge and gave such a thorough scrubbing that left me squeaky clean with tingling skin.
It takes me back toΒ years gone by, of putting plastic pails under the corrugated zinc roof, Β to collect pools of water from the rain due to the epileptic service of the water taps.
The days of going up and down the slippery, clay slope that led to the village stream with swinging kegs to fetch water for my grandma’s big pitchers pass through my mind. We would wade in and splash around in the stream before finding our way home, but my dalliance with water of deep depths was rudely brought to a stop one day, when a water snake came gliding by as we frolicked.
It scared the blinking daylights out of me. Hurtling out of the stream, my wading days in untamed water was over. I DESPISE snakes!!
I do love to wallow in the pool or the jacuzzi, when I get the chance, but I keep away from the deep end.
I know my paranoia comes from an incident back in the days, of witnessing a young man disappear into the waters of Tarkwa Bay in Lagos and was never found again.
This paranoia got further cemented with the loss of my brother-in-law to the cold, watery fingers of a lake in Ontario, Canada four years ago.
Nonetheless, I made sure to teach my children to swim and we dally with water with a lot of respect. At the beach, we only pluck our butts on the sand, play and maybe allow our toes to get wet. No more, no less.
It’s needless to say that human life cannot exist without this liquid essence.
My photos come from different places, and most times I take a landscape/horizontal shots for a wider perspective.
We have grey weather and forecast of three days worth of rainfall. I woke up and it wasn’t raining yet so, I quickly nipped out for my days affairs with the photo assignment for Photo 101 at the back of my mind.
I got some reward for my venture. Now it has started sprinkling a little bit.
There’s beauty in the ordinary things that surround us.
I get to see all sorts of random stuff when walking.
According to my husband, he says that I take my walks with a peculiar gleam in my eyes as if I am a blood hound on the trail of something.
I am still trying to figure out if I should laugh at his comment or glower at him. I guess it will depend on my mood and PMS π
I wonder how the person/s ate the fish on this trail? I think they were two people and they ate the head too!
Home lies in the beat of my heart.
Home lies in your loving arms
Home is wherever you are
Though I wander seas afar
You’ll always be on my mind.
In my days spent on Earth, my journey through life has taken me many times in so many directions, away from the shores of bricks and mortar that we called home.
From the Eastern part of my country in my childhood days, to the Western part as a young adult, I set up home in many places, but my heart lay in my parents abode.
That was the way it was until I got married and my heart expanded to accommodate some more.
In my years of matrimony, we have perambulated quite a bit. We have moved across countries and continents; from Africa to North America to Middle East and who knows where next.
In these years, I have consistently learnt to shed myself of material knick-knacks that may not make the cut during any move.
I appreciate creature comforts like other human, my cosy bed, the living room, kitchen and dining, but over these years of sojourning, I have learnt in truth, that bricks and mortar may make a house, but home are those who lie in it.
Be it a tent under the stars
Be it a caravan on the plains
Be it a mansion in a beautiful city
My home surely lies with you.
Β© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Photo 101
The Daily Post Photo promptΒ Harmony.
Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
On Thursdayβs, I share pictures about βEchos of my Neighbourhood.
I would like to invite you to participate. The challenge is quite simple.
Every Thursday, share a photo of bits and pieces of wherever you are at any point in time. It could be houses, backgrounds of your neighbourhood, activities and so forth and you can tag it Echos of my Neighbourhood, add my link to your post so that I will get the ping from your post.
Every other Thursday, I will publish a post with the links of all those who participated the previous week.
This is just a fun way of getting to see more of the World around us through your eyes, since we cannot all be at those places, we can at least see them through you.
From the pictures above, last few days Β found me perambulating quite a bit. These were taken in the course of last week.
From attending the food festival and sugar craft show, to going to Bastakiya, the coffee museum and imbibing in coffee so potent that it could knock off your socks and you will float in the air with the buoyancy that it delivered.
I learnt a lot about coffee and took hundreds of photos.
It was thick heavy brew, served in small cups. I couldn’t finish mine because, it seriously gave me bright eyes and I think my hair stood on ends from the buzz that I got.
A bit bushy-tailed if I may say so.
Β© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Last Week Echoes harvested quite new awesome peeks of different neighbourhoods, so board the flight with me and letβs go have a look see.
BookygloverΒ Deb shows us some of the rustic parts of my Lagos.
Hell’s kitchen and beyond from Roaming Urban gypsyΒ have you been to Hell’s kitchen?
Fun photosΒ what’s your thought? Would you drive this?
Giggles & TalesΒ more lovely photos from Stella in Stockholm.
Mercury CollidingΒ Kat shows us some part of her neighbourhood that most of us don’t like to visit.
Thoughts and EntanglementsΒ These pictures are so haunting they belong in a book
What’s up docΒ Cute! Took me back to my growing up years.
Looking backΒ A blessed lineage from Mandi
Paula’sΒ I must tell you that I am so envious of Paula’s community π
Are we enjoyingΒ these views yet? Take a peek at them.
So, when will you add some of yours? Pretty please with a cherry on top π
Regards,
Β© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
P.S. I hope I didn’t miss out anyone’s link? I have that funny feeling.