As the days go by, I have truly realized that contentment and peace are not items that can be borrowed, purchased or stolen.
No amount of prosperity or material gains can put something in a soul that is derelict or lacking and no other human is responsible for my happiness but myself.
One can aim to attain the satisfaction of living a complete life from within themselves and not from without.
Personally, I don’t tie the state of my well-being to anything that lacks intrinsic value outside myself and God.
It is a continuous pursuit for me and I strive to achieve this state of being by:
- Trying to understand myself and what truly makes me happy.
- Staying in tune with my responsibility.
- Seeking enabling ways to free my mind and de-stress.
- Finding positive things to do.
- Strengthening my health and finances.
- Extending kindness to others.
- Pursuing my passion and interests.
- Maintaining good relationships.
Keeping my life simple and trying not to worry as much about things that are not within my power to change but doing my absolute best to change those that are within my line of sight and control.
With all these things on a balanced scale, I feel excited and alive, knowing that each day, I give life my best shot because tomorrow is not guaranteed anyone.
I cannot afford to extend the promise of living and feeling as complete as I can in expectation of events which are merely temporal and may never arise.
Traveling to see new places, buying the little niceties that I can afford to buy are just toppings on a life to be savoured.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
In response to NaBloPoMo prompt Tuesday, November 17
What is one place you need to see to feel like your life is complete?
“Small acceptances in life” are a great way to deal with the unexpected!
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Yes indeed it is if we can try to inculcate them. Thank you for reading.
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yip. keeping it simple. loving the small things. being in the moment.
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Precisely 🙂
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You do know how to live the good life my dear lady 😉
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not always, we have to keep reminding ourselves!
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I am in a happier place than when I was younger, being in the moment is a great thing!
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I totally agree 🙂
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Very well said. This is exactly how it is. I can tell by your blog that you live by these words as well. A great post, and reminder. We always have so much to be grateful for. Thank you for sharing your in writing with us.
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Truly there is a lot to be grateful for and I sincerely happy that you also share that frame of mind. Thank you very much. I read what you write and find them quite inspiring.
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It’s a beautiful thing to be able to inspire each other. One of the best things with internet if you ask me 🙂
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Yes! That is one of the best things to be found on the internet.
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🙂
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Contentment comes when our attitude shifts from greed to grateful and from fear to trust. There is so much joy in living a simple life. You bless this over-thinker with your practical and positive out-look on life.:0)
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True very true my gentle sage 🙂 From greed to grateful and feat to trust.
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“Love people not things,” is something a very old and happy person told me near the end of their lives. I’ve never forgotten those words. The pleasure from our material possessions is fleeting, where our relationships can be forever!
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Very true.
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Traveling makes me complete. A good read.
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I am glad you enjoyed it. Thank you 🙂
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Thank you for this, you worded it very nicely. One day I can only hope to be at the level of completeness you are at! Taking in the little things, not worrying about things out of my control..I am slowly getting there. Thank you 🙂
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You surely will Clarissa since you are now conscious of that fact. It is like building inner muscles of the mind and spirit and truly worthwhile in the long run. You will get there. Thank you so much for your support and comments. Have a good day today 🙂
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Thank you,a lovely day to you too, Jaqueline! 🙂
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Sorry if get this twice… Mobile learning tablet..,enjoying visit today. Simple is good and necessary in hard money times. Blessed to learn content with less. 🙂
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Very true my dear lady Sarah. Enjoy the mobile learning 🙂
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“Traveling to see new places, buying the little niceties that I can afford to buy are just toppings on a life to be savoured.”
I love this, it really made me think. Travel is the source of my happiness right now, in many ways, but it should be just the topping, like sprinkles on a sundae.. Thank you..
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Kathleen, thank you for visiting and sharing your own thoughts. I went through the stage of living to travel and realizing that though I loved travel and still do travel, my life could still be full and even better defined without it. That was when the traveling became even more fun. Kind regards and have a lovely day 🙂
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Very lovely and true words! There is no material thing to make us happy 🙂
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Yes Mama, there is none. Thank you for your lovely words 🙂
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🙂
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