“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” Donald Miller
None of us is perfect, all are found wanting, we are in it together – Jacqueline.
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Thoughts and Tales…A Lifestyle Blog with a Zing.
“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” Donald Miller
None of us is perfect, all are found wanting, we are in it together – Jacqueline.
‘PLEASE KEEP SENDING IN THE LINKS.’
Today’s featured blogs are:
A fairy tale with a twist A number of you might know how fond of Maria I am and her pictures never fail to gladden my heart. They are VISUAL pleasures. HOWEVER, this link is not about her photo. It’s a scintillating bit about Maria’s personal story. I have read it. I like it very much. I want to read more 😉 Told in simple words, yet very compelling.
The value of Mr. M Diya’s post really put a small on my face. We really don’t know what we have until it’s not there, or the value of others until they are gone. A refreshing read.
Is this mommy life Introducing Mandea a new blogging neighbour of mine. I read her article ‘SELL YOURSELF‘ which I find very interesting because it’s a quandary many of us find ourselves in. Do say hello.
Deb Was Here My girl Deb is talented, humorous; friendly, candid; community minded, and lots more. One to have as a blogging neighbour.
The Heartbreaker Amunala is a new, upcoming blogger in our midst. Do step in and show some love.
Master Mel’s attention to fine details is superb and this is the comment that I made: ‘Your attention to detail is impeccable Mel. You’ve created so much imagery that it’s only natural to imagine and paint these things in one’s mind.’
Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.
‘Do you want more eyes on your words?’
Well then, add your LINK INTO THIS LOOP.
P.S. Comments are disabled here to keep the loop tidy. Any comments or link you want to send can be added through the link in the post.
Thank you for your understanding and regards.
‘We create a cohesive community when we come together.’
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
‘Irrespective of RACE, RELIGION and GEOGRAPHIC location, under the layers of our skin, lies the same human.’ ©Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Writers are always selling somebody out.
—Joan Didion
This quote roused a chuckle out of me because I can personally testify to its trueness. Selling out doesn’t always connote something negative, especially for writers, even though we use the material obtained as fodder for our imagination and stories.
Simply said, when someone irks me, especially when their act is repetitive, they somehow find their ways inside a story or any article that I conjure.
It’s very natural that there are those who might rub us the wrong way or we simply don’t get along with them and this could apply to family members too.
Writing it out helps me to delve deeper into the reasoning behind the person’s actions and also serves as an outlet for my vexation or amusement.
A lot of times, by the time I am done writing it all out, I find myself laughing it off.
For instance, there are some irksome fellows that use the neighbourhood gym in such a bothersome manner, that it’s been on the tip of my tongue so many times to tell them off, but how do you tell a guy that his habit of scratching his butt often, gets on your nerves?
Oh well, with my tongue in my cheek, I turned him into a butt scratching caveman who can’t yet grasp the refined aspects of social skills in public places and that makes me feel a whole lot better.
Ha! I daresay, that there are so many of us out there selling out others.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Just a gentle nudge to prod you into sending me some post links to feature.
It’s a two-way traffic of supporting each other and it gives me something to do
So feel free to drop your LINKS IN HERE.
Don’t be shy about it, I don’t bite
You are most welcome and thank you too.
Jacqueline
I honestly can’t claim that I have a fair idea of what I’m doing. In fact, I would be lying if I claimed to know. I am just having fun with today’s assignment since I am out all day with my troop.
According to today’s photo 101 prompt ‘Glass, Squared,’ we are to incorporate glass in today’s image: a window, a mirror, a wine glass, sunglasses or something else. It doesn’t matter what form the glass takes.
So here I go tinkering and peeking in or out.
Today’s featured blogs are:
Aaronsbaldinit Yes indeed, sometimes life can make you feel like smashing your head a bit. Introducing a new friend Aaron. Do say hello.
Death by expectations in the quiet. A totally captivating short read.
Prayer for Brussels a heartfelt and much-needed prayer.
Quite an interesting household. Honestly, blogging has shown me more of people and their homes than ever before.
Beat company: interesting, eclectic beats mingled with the posts. Check it out.
Please visit their blogs and say hello. A few minutes may gain you a friendly support.
‘Do you want more eyes on your words?’
Well then, add your LINK INTO THIS LOOP.
P.S. Comments are disabled here to keep the loop tidy. Any comments or link you want to send can be added through the link in the post.
Thank you for your understanding and regards.
‘We create a cohesive community when we come together.’
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha