Midnight Motivations and Musings 111


There comes a time when the ‘use by date’ of some people in our lives expires and we have to let them go. Those who can’t stand to see your progress, whose main roles as the Negative Nancy’s and Ned’s  is to discourage and remind you of a hurtful past,  as a way to keep  you pegged under their thumbs and forever cloaked in self-doubt.

These people exercise mind control over you and subconsciously, you are allowing them to manipulate your life one way or the other – when you have to hope for moral support that is never forthcoming, hide your true desires, or reduce yourself before them, in order to accommodate their scoffing disbelief, peevishness and other symptoms that they tend to exhibit, it’s time to put them to pasture and walk away. Not every friendship is built to last and have a fairytale forever ending.

© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

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13 thoughts on “Midnight Motivations and Musings 111

  1. Brilliant. Toxic relationships should no longer be allow to be toxic, which may mean they are no longer relationships to us. Sometimes, however, that is not as convenient as other times. Thus the wisdom of the Holy Spirit!!


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