Often, getting older can be viewed with a mixed feeling of excitement and dismay. For the younger person, they feel that they are getting closer to independence while the older person sometimes wishes time could slow down a notch.
Having two of my favourite men (husband and one of my boys) celebrate their birthdays this week is a lot to be thankful for, asides from all the sweet consumptions that accompanies birthday celebrations, I am reminded of the countless blessings that my life has been decorated with. We are well. We have shelter and food. We have hope. We have a bright future. That is more than enough.
My son is fast galloping into a grown man and these days when I look at his tall, 6ft plus big frame, I remember my cute, itty-bitty baby boy with a head full of hair and shiny eyes. A boy who clung to me as a lifeline and laughed at my little jokes and play with him. Now he has his own ideas and jokes, independent in many ways and we are going through teenage ups and downs which I must confess baffles me at times.
Sometimes, the song “wish we could turn back time to the good old days,” hums in my head but I realize also that I wouldn’t have it any different than I do right now. Would I want my child to remain forever a child and not grow older? NO! This is the cycle of life and I am grateful to be a partaker as well as the parent of this beautiful child.
There are times I ask myself where time ran off to when I look at my darling Himself and realize that we’ve been married now for two months shy of 16 years and I realize that I’ve been awesomely blessed even when I didn’t know it. We are all aging with grace and maturing like fine wine and I am thankful 🙂
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
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Congratulations to your itty bitty little 6 foot baby and Himself !
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Thank you dear Raili 🙂
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I celebrate each birthday but get very sad too!
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Mixed emotions. I would like to grow old in numbers but not change so much 😉
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I celebrate that I am growing wiser with time and with each year less heart ache.
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That’s a wonderful thing for not all arrive at wisdom as they age.
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I think it is a matter of honestly acting your age…rejoicing what you have learned and knowing that you are moving into a new part of your life. If you are still chasing some of the same things you did in your 20s….when you are 40 or older…you have to move on. Hopefully you can take things into perspective.
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I agree with you. It’s actually kind of sad to see an older person trying too hard to run after things that they should have left behind.
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Yes, we can’t return to youth with all our knowledge…if someone would devise a way….we may have more unexpected problems as we get older but we must embrace them to move on. Best wishes.
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congratulations on 16 years of married bliss and happy birthday to your son and hubby. It’s wonderful to read about a happy family. These days I hear so much woe from my married friends. It restores my hope in the institution 🙂
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Thank you Mel. Marriage is not a walk in the park by any means but it’s certainly a beautiful thing when one keeps an open and selfless mind 🙂
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You’re welcome 🙂 Maybe someday I’ll find out
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Even when your son is fully mature you will still enjoy watching him grow as a person and pass through the stages of life. The role of parenting changes but the relationship (with love and commitment) lasts a lifetime.
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Thank you so much my dear Pam. You are quite right. It’s a role that lasts a lifetime 🙂
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Congratulations, dear! Important milestones to celebrate and be grateful for.💙
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Thanks dear Khaya. Yes indeed there’s a whole lot to be grateful for 🙂
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Congrats! And many more 🙂
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Thank you very much 🙂
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Many more years to you and your family. Congrats!
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Thank you 🙂
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You’re welcome
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Happy birthday to you all,!
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Thank you dear Willow
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My pleasure😍
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I’m always glad when my grown boys and their families visit – and only slightly as glad when they go back home. If only they could grow up without their parents aging…
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So true Roo. You echo my feelings 🙂
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Congrats. Hope you keep on having a fulfilling life Jacqueline 🙂
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Thank you Mandi for such blessed wishes. My regards 🙂
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Thanks Jacqueline.
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Love this! Time really seems to fly, doesn’t it?
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It sure does sis. Thank you 🙂
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Such a beautiful post. Belated birthday greetings to your darling and your ‘little’ boy 🙂 God bless!
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Thank you auntie Diya 😉 Blessings
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Remembering the past is good – it helps one to realise how blessed a person is. The years pass quickly, don’t they? I certainly feel it when I look at my baby girls all grown up in the form of teenagers.
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It’s definitely good to be able to dwell on lovely memories and the time does fly pretty fast.
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Congratulations Jacqueline and sending hugs to you and your beautiful family.
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Thank you dear Eugenia. **hugs**
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Happy Birthday to your best guys! 🙂
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Thank you my lady 🙂
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Wow, I have 12 years to catch up with you, haaaaaa. I pray that just like you, I will look back and say, Ebenezer, thus far He has brought us
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Amen to your prayers. He will be with you and take you further than you think. Thank you
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