Life brings friends our way who turn out to become our families in almost every sense of the word and I am particularly grateful for such a friend as my dear good friend Mrs. Ekaete Augustine-Edet. ![1452678658237[1]](https://acookingpotandtwistedtales.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/14526786582371.jpg?w=300&h=300)
We have journeyed together from our days as single ladies working at the French Embassy, Lagos Nigeria almost two decades ago, to today as mothers and wives and she has remained such a steadfast friend, sister and motivator.
She is one of the driving forces behind my starting my blog, because she believes in me and my writing skills. She kept asking me when I would start my blog, until I got started.
She is there anytime I call with a need or something on my mind. I had reason to make such a call and as usual she selflessly gave of herself, her time and her pocket.
I thank God for a friend like you and really don’t have much words to appreciate your kindness.
On another hand, I have been blessed with running into interesting characters since last week.
Two lovely neighbourhood dogs, Lola and Cookie and Meow, The cat seem to have adopted me for reasons best known to them, though I do stop to say hello to the cute dogs when I am taking my walk and they are out and about.
Meow is a lone ranger, but always appears by the chair where I sit sometimes to watch the World go by and he rubs himself on my pants legs seeking attention.
I am more a dog person and not particularly a cat person but strangely, this would be the third encounter where different neighbourhood felines come up to say hello.
Since I don’t know much about felines, maybe those who do can tell me what this indicates.
I am grateful for little meaningless moments like this. They end up meaning a lot when we appreciate them and each moment that I spend in a state of gratitude, the phrase that the best things in life are for free couldn’t be more true than it is.
There is so much to be thankful for. Just look around and you will see.
You can join Colline’s or Maria Jansson‘s gratitude challenge platforms
Regards and blessings
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha



Friendships like this are what we all yearn for. They are mostly few and strong, just the right combination. And the animals are there to remind you how awesome you are.:-)
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Lovely words Deb. True friends are very rare to find. These animals are just delightful. Thank you 🙂
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A true friend is a great blessing. You’re very lucky to have them (both the human kind and the pet kind). 🙂
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Thank you Bun. Quite true indeed. They are blessings never to be taken for granted.
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What a lovely post! We used to have cats and I think when they rub against your leg like that they are marking you as their person. And cats do have an uncanny ability to gravitate toward those people who don’t particularly like cats!
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Interesting information Diane. Thank you. I wondered myself at the attraction. Now I understand a bit better.
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As always, this is a beautiful post. Thanks for sharing yet another classic. 🙂
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Thank you my lady 🙂
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You’re welcome my sis. 🙂
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I am jealous o!
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Kobi darlyn, you know she is a gem. No need to feel jealous at all o. Are you coming to Dubai?
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Making a friend when you weren’t looking for one is the best circumstance under which you make the best lasting friends. Pick deliberate friends along the way often end up messy. I am happy for you that you found such a beautiful lady to be friends with. May your friendship be preserved forever
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Amen to this prayer Buki. She is a true gem and I believe our friendship is worth preserving.
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Jacqueline
Sounds like a good friend you have there. I am sure you provide as much support to her as she to you – that’s often how it is with good friends. I agree with Diane about cats choosing the person who is not necessarily fond of cats. For their reputation of being aloof they have a way of wanting to win over the ones who are not already cat lovers.
Good to read your blog again.
Kalen
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Thank you very much Kalen for your reading and comments. It’s really a great blessing to have supportive friends. They are worth more than words can emphasize at times. It truly does appear that these felines possess intuitions that are very dynamic.
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Friends.. True friends are a wonderful Blessings.. And what a lovely post in gratitude for those who surround you.. You asked about Cats and what meaning it could hold when one gravitates towards you.. You can find a link at the bottom of my post on Cat totems.. Here.. https://suedreamwalker.wordpress.com/2016/01/06/creation-in-motion/
Wishing you a Wonderful Week… 🙂 Sue
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Thank you very much Sue. Now let me go and look at that link 🙂
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Thank you for looking 🙂
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My pleasure 🙂
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I’m very grateful to have you as a friend! (…and I’m definitely more a dog person than a cat person!)
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Me too Maria. I have seen new things through your eyes and your photos never fail to captivate me 🙂 Your love for dogs show in your works.
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❤
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You and Ekaete actually look like sisters! It’s certainly great to have that kind of a close connection with someone. I hope your friendship lasts a lifetime!
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Amen. She is really such a lovely person. Someone else once said that we look alike as well. Hmm! I will look at her face a lot harder 🙂
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A lovely tribute to your friend. She seems to be a real blessing in your life. Beautiful dog photos and cat photo! I have always heard that people don’t adopt cats, cats adopt people. You have been adopted!
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She is truly a gem. Indeed, it does seem they have chosen to adopt me. Cat’s seem to have their own minds made up and they are content to be lone rangers.
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Yes it’s wonderful to have such good friends, I am also truly blessed!
Cute fur babies too 🙂
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They are simply gorgeous 🙂
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Awesome post, Jacqueline. I definitely agree with you that there’s so much to be thankful and grateful to God for if only we can look around us (family, friends, loved ones, health, school, business, workplace, etc.) Not necessarily in the big dramatic times but also in the very little tiny moments in life.
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Very true indeed. Besides, the little moments sum up to big moments. Thank you for your words.
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Having a good friend like this is priceless 🙂
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A lovely update for Jacqueline. Best friends are like diamonds in the rough! 🙂
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Friends such as these are definitely precious. Thank you for joining the challenge this week.
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Thank you Colline. I enjoy taking part in it. Have a beautiful weekend
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You have been claimed by the cat, such a lovely post
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Thank you Trina. I hope I got the name correctly and not mistaken.
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You have indeed 🙂
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Good 🙂
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A friend who believes in you is a treasure. Perhaps the cat wants the challenge of turning a dog person? 🙂
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I am pleased to inform you that I have nominated you for Leibster award. Please have a look at it https://magicandbeauty.wordpress.com/2017/07/29/liebster-award-blue-sky-tag-award/.
Many thanks !!
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Thank you for the kind nomination.
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The animals probably sensed that you were a kind person that meant them no harm
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Wonderful!
Reblogging to my sister site Success Inspirers World ☺
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Cats don’t warm up to just anyone. It is an honor that you were chosen by these kitties, as they recognize you are a good person, who means them no harm. 🙂
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Welcome to that little voice, and I’m delighted you are following my blog.
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