Did someone mention flaws? Oh dear!
My heap of clay feet is so huge that it’s too heavy to be placed on a pedestal. I am covered in bruises of flaws.
I am bandaged and sore all over from the blight of character that I suffer.
Grace and mercy saved me from the blisters of slavery to my flaws and I hardly know where to start, but what I know for sure is that I am truly glad for the gift of self acceptance and discovery.
Before I got married and had children, my patience level was low and needed room for improvement. In simple terms, I did not suffer fools gladly.
However, with the arrival of my darling, yours truly, my young patience was stretched thin, that there were times I wondered if God was having a chuckle as fate deliberately paired me with a man who is my direct opposite and who would drive me crazy with his own eccentricities.
Then the arrival of children stretched it further, yet, surprisingly made it stronger and more elastic to such an extent that the level of my patience in recent times astounds even me at times.
I used to worry incessantly. I worried about my family. I worried about tomorrow. I worried about the state of the World and everything worth worrying about up until the ministrations of the Holy Spirit made me realize that worrying about issues beyond my control was simply exhausting, fruitless and non-purposeful.
I learnt to start casting my burdens unto The Lord as minutiae as they may be and over time, I have noticed so much improved difference. The trials and lessons were actually meant for my own long term benefit.
It’s really an endless list but, something that I know for sure is that, not only is my evolution a transforming liberation for me, but also a spiritually refining progress.
Without doubts no one can claim to be flawless. Even the Saints were Sinners at some point in time in their lives.
Now I see my flaws as my beauty spots 🙂
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
The Daily Post prompt Flawed.
What is your worst quality?
I can relate with the patient thing. I felt I was patient…but when husband and kids arrived- I realized I wasn’t and that I needed more. 🙂
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We seem to do well on our own, until we have others who we are responsible for 😉
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Our flaws are what make us beautiful and unique. 🙂
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Yes indeed. They are part of our story and makes us outstanding 🙂
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I am about to say that…I will just then say…agree with you..
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They really do beautify us in their particular way.
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Hahaha , Just as my friend has told me, Great minds think alike 🙂
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Indeed…
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” not only is my evolution a transforming liberation for me, but also a spiritually refining progress.” Yes indeed. Great post.
not only is my evolution a transforming liberation for me, but also a spiritually refining progress.
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My appreciations JoHanna. It’s really work in progress. Kind regards 🙂
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Tell me the truth…Do my flaws make my backside look big?
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Yes they do *with my tongue in my cheek*
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Ah, if we did’t have flaws think how boring life would be.
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Hmm! Come to think of that, it’s true though.
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Cross out that line about the blight of character and don’t speak of my sister that way!
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Okay Sis. I will. I am sorry about talking about your sister in that manner.
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🙂
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I like this honest look at yourself and how you have evolved. Accepting self and working to grow where you cas is a great sign of maturity and wisdom. May your efforts be crowned with an ever growing personality!
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Sir, I accept this blessings with gratitude. Thank you 🙂
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Amen. There is no blessing I wouldn’t let you have if I could..
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I have many flaws but being clumsy is one of the most annoying! Falling over everything, dropping and breaking things and generally being awkward!
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Don’t we all have loads of them and they can be the annoying bane of our lives 🙂
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Great post filled with insight
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Thank you very much 🙂
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Lovely post, yes our flaws do make us who we are and are important parts of what make us individuals!
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True Mama. A case of perfect imperfections 🙂
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yes for sure
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Seeing your flaws as beauty spots — what a wonderful idea, I will try to think of it that way too!
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Thank you Joy. I appreciate your comments. Kind regards 🙂
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Well, for starters there’s a small scar on one of my cheek bums from a childhood experience in the bathing tub. A foot that almost was amputated-jumping from counter into garbage can with broken bottle in it. Stretch marks in bums after giving birth…do I really have to continue?? :O))))
“It Is in our imperfections that perfection is found.” @Emma Ortega Negrete
p.s. yes, I got quite a few quotes that pertaining to flaws.
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Loving this comment and the quote. Nothing truer than that 🙂
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You are so beautiful Jacqueline…..(had to get that out the way first)…reading this post I swear we have so much in common. I use to worry all of the time as well….and my kids have made me much more patient than my younger years. Although it took a lil while after having my first son cuz I swear that lil boy was more than a handful!!!
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Aww! You gladden my heart lady 🙂 The kids turn us into better humans without our permission 😉
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You look beautiful to me, and I respect your intelligence as well.
Pray for me. I keep focusing on my wrinkled cheeks due to weight loss. Just got to get over it
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Thank you so much for the sweet compliment. You have done such a wonderful and impressive job Deborah. The grace that enabled you to surmount such challenge will come through for you. In no time, you will realize that you don’t even dwell on it again 🙂
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