Our sense of not feeling lost comes from our deep sentiments to have value and common acceptance as an individual. Nothing validates us like a sense of belonging; of being part of a bigger unit.
As humans, we all have this desire and craving for the care or that sense of feeling cared for, which when we receive it, nurtures our intrinsic being.
Knowing that I can come here and write without giving thought to prejudice, but to being myself, leaves me with warm fuzzy feeling. That I can traipse around and blog hop to visit others and later return to my own little domain to find little sticky notes all over the door of my blog, makes me realize that I have found my tribe.
Naturally, we all have tribes that we are born into by virtue of genetic pool and geographical placements.
Then, we have tribes that our driving passion, needs and experiences makes us seek out.
Blogging cum Writing is such a tribe. A unique, wholesome, heartwarming, dynamic tribe where even the most flagging of hearts can be revived and get a boost if they should keep an open mind, heart and seek out the welcoming hands within this tribe of ours.
As is normal, even in nuclear families, you will find those that do not particularly agree with each other, but like every symbiotic existence, we still need each other in order to thrive.
Therefore, for me to be, we all have to be. I am because we all are, irrespective of our differences, in brotherhood, we stand.
Let me leave you with a couple of African proverbs to ruminate on:
‘A bundle of firewood cannot be fastened with one hand.’ In essence, you cannot go the journey all by yourself. You look up to others for support, to teach you the way and to benefit of their experience.
‘A single tree cannot make a forest.’
‘A single string of bead can never jingle.’
My appreciations go to Random Ramblings who invited me a while ago to take part in the 3 days, 3 quotes challenge. My posting calendar has been a bit hectic hence the delay.
I would like to invite these following bloggers to participate in the challenge.
The rules are:
- Post 3 Quotes on 3 consecutive days.
- Thank the person who nominated you.
- Nominate 3 other bloggers on each day of challenge.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha

Oh,this is such a fine piece of writing! “Therefore, for me to be, we all have to be. I am because we all are, irrespective of our differences, in brotherhood, we stand.” Perfect! 🙂
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Thank you so much for interpreting it just the way that it should be. I appreciate that 🙂
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Jackie, I like your metaphor. The various tribes we belong to as we move in life- it is a new way of thinking and gives one a feeling of belonging-ness- we need not be lonely.
Susie
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Yes indeed Susie. We can actually make and build enduring relationships here if one so chooses to.
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So well said. I just said this to hubby yesterday, that I enjoy the writing, but I love the sense of community even more, like I have hundreds of pen pals around the world!
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Exactly the way I feel too and it is a beautiful feeling 🙂
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such amazing post…
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Thank you ever so kindly 🙂
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You make me yearn for folk tales
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I love folk tales too. It was a delight to listen to my grandma’s feed us with stories of the Tortoise and all his escapades.
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Beautiful sentiments dear Jacki!
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Thank you dear Mama 🙂
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Thanks Jacqueline. Wonderful.
No matter what differences we may have, no matter the struggle of finding our own individuality? Everyone walks on the same ground thats the fact😊😊😊
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Hello Chris, I totally agree with those comments. My apologies for the late response. Just saw this comment tucked away in my spam box. Do have a good week.
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Hi jackie, yeah I had one. Thanks for inviting me to the challenge I’ll have my response very soon.😊😊😊
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Good. That would be nice 🙂
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😊😊😊
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I love this post and the quotes are wonderful!
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Are goof balls welcome too????
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Of course! We wouldn’t be complete without Goofy in the mix 😉
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