There are no two ways about it, the utmost thing that I do better than anyone else is being myself.
I am an original of who I am and not a poor quality copy of someone else – well, except bits of my parents, who did the very needful to create me 😉
It is important to reaffirm this to oneself time and again, especially in voyeuristic recent times where the over-zealous drive to be perfect seems to increase more and more.
There is absolutely nothing wrong in striving to be the best that one can be, but there is something wrong in getting carried off in the drift of trying to be too many people at the same time; even a persons brain will surely get wonky and tired from the ping-pong of living lives or attempting to live lives that don’t belong to us.
I may not be particularly adept at doing somethings that other people are very good at doing or being better than anyone as a matter of fact.
What I know for sure is that whatever interest that I develop, I try to put in the best of my ability and my real competitor is myself because I keep pushing my boundaries and keep aspiring to improve on my standards.
When we look at our palms, no two finger prints are the same, likewise, all fingers are definitely not equal. Each is characteristically different and that is how all human are different.
It is a foolhardy, frustrating, exhausting and stress inducing process to keep comparing notes and juggling the attempts to beat others.
There will always be someone better at one thing or the other.
Trying to be the very best at whatever your game is the first part of being the best and I must reiterate that in the game of best, being the best authentic you that you can be is better than being a confused nobody.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
NaBloPoMo Prompt – Monday, November 23
What do you do better than anyone else?
Well said, and I love your quote “…But they will never be you” and have a blessed week!
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Thank you for visiting and for your words Richard. I appreciate them. Have a blessed week too 🙂
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You are welcome!
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🙂
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Great blog post, Jacqueline!
What do I do better than others? I am glad to be real good in some aspects, it doesn’t really matter if others compete to be better than that.
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My philosophy too Karen. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate 🙂
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The thing we all do best, and better than anyone., is being US.
You being YOU. and ME being Me.
That’s a huge blessing.. and sadly some of us try to change to “copy” someone else..
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That’s right Saraa. It’s a waste of blessing trying to pick some other persons stars.
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The art of being yourself is the art of becoming YOUnique!
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Yes indeed it is 🙂 Thank you Sonnie
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I can’t agree with you more:)
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Thank you Khaya 🙂
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Great post. We are all different (original). Why try to be someone else, when nothing is more interesting and unique as you.
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Exactly. Waste of human hours 🙂
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Well said! What a time waster and a stressor to constantly be trying to be someone you are not! Love the Oscar Wilde quote you opened with!
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The quote spoke very loudly to me. Thank you Meg 🙂
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Great post!
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Thank you 🙂
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Reblogged this on MLou's Photography Blog and commented:
No One Be YOU! Great blog by Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
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Thanks dear MLou. I appreciate this gesture 🙂
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Love the quote and the post dear!
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Thank you Mama. Have a lovely day today 🙂
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you too!
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If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Desiderata, as I’m sure you know my dear! x:-)x
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For sure sis. Its a recipe for not so happy times for anyone who trots that path.
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Be you boo :). Well said!
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Yup 🙂
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I really can relate to “the ping-pong of living…” That’s just perfect! I look forward to your multi-talented blogs every day. Bless your heart, Ms. J.
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My word! Those are lovely words to say Lily. Thank you so much 🙂
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