Bending over to stoke the firewood, blowing at it with gusto and fanning the crackling flames till they lit; putting kerosene into the stove and lighting it’s wicks with an ignited single broomstick; manipulating the gas cooker to lower the heat from burning the beans or rice while I snatched a quick five minutes read in the bathroom, were my early forays in the kitchen. I was caught young!
Naturally this has gravitated towards keeping my brood and my dear Himself nourished over the years and I believe that in most homes this is usually the case – the mother automatically assumes the kitchen chef position.
I certainly know the way to his heart by keeping his tummy nicely sated with good tasting yumminess 🙂
It has been my primary responsibility over the years and I dare say that I can whip up a decent meal and efficiently too.
Since that is the case, it goes without debate that I am the best cook in my domain.
However, there are have been days that Himself develops a desire to become a culinary artist and Myself simply puts up her feet and watch’s my kitchen transform into an operation desert storm 😉
I don’t mutter a word of discouragement so that the waves of culinary want-to-do will hit more often.
I simply go ahead and enjoy eating every bite whipped up by Himself, with a deep hum of appreciation and a sink load of dirty pots and pans.
Do you enjoy whipping up some yummy stuff or is there a Himself in your life, who is a culinary artist turning your kitchen into an area hit by a thunder storm?
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
NaBloPoMo – Thursday, November 26
If you’re celebrating Thanksgiving today (or even if you’re not!), tell us about the best cook in your family.
I make jokes about it but I am a decent cook. Hubby is, too, and was much better than I when we first married. So I was more timid then. Now, years later, I can even make biscuits and gravy and bake pies just like his momma made when he was growing up in TN.
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🙂 I can understand the early parts of that whole married business and being a bit more timid. There were some dishes that I had to learn to prepare from my mother-in-law and I daresay that now I prepare them with flourish 🙂 I certainly agree that practice makes perfect.
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I, like you, have become an accomplished cook but have learned as the saying goes never to look a gift horse in the mouth. If someone wants to prepare a meal for me, I show up with a smile and an empty plate.
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Definitely! I love that phrase showing up with a smile and an empty plate 🙂
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I LOVE it when hubby takes over in the kitchen – sometimes I do wish it would be more often 🙂
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Me too! I wish they would be inspired to take over the kitchen more often 😉
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Definitely!
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I am the cook, but I pulled my son into learning how to cook early and he’s pretty good when he’s not busy.He has to work today so it’s all me, and hubby the designated one to go out for that one thing I forgot. I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving 🙂
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We share something in common. Started my first son early too and he is my sous chef as well 🙂 Blessed moments for you and your family.
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Cooking with someone is great! I really like cooking with my brother. When we do, I say I am his sous chef!
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Hmm! That’s nice. My brothers are a bit lazy in the kitchen
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Well, not everyone can be a cook, right? Happy Thanksgiving!
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True 🙂
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Check out those pants he is wearing…. Cool threads!
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Thank you very much Patrick. I will let him know you said so 🙂
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I love to cook but there is no ‘himself’ in my life!
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I am sure you whip up good stuff 😉
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He cooks …I eat ! we divide our work 😉
Happy Thanksgiving
Turtle Hugs
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That’s lovely. Have a good break too 🙂
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Thank you for inviting us into your home!! (Or is this back in Houston?) It’s always nice to get a break from cooking and having someone else do the dirty work for once. I employ my husband to cook brunch during the weekend…he seems do pretty well with breakfast dishes!
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This was when we came last December for a look see, then went back to Houston before our move in July. He was pampering me as much as possible to sway my mind into accepting to come over 😉 You are lucky about the dishes. My hubby doesn’t mind rustling up something but absolutely hates washing dishes.
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The best cook in our family was Hubbys mother. She passed away at 95, but she passed down her sacred dressing recipe. I never did learn to make her biscuits. Sigh.
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Wow! 95! That was very excellent. Those old ladies had some wonderful recipes worth knowing 🙂
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She was the best
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🙂
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Oh I can so relate!!! I even took a photo of the overflowing countertops and sink this year…but decided not to post it! 😊 The dinner was fabulous…even if I had to do the cleanup!
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🙂 like my mama would say, we don’t look a gift horse in the mouth. That way more gifts will flow our way 😉
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Oh yes. I agree. It is wise to choose one’s battles and to be grateful for every blessing! 😊
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🙂
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