How would you feel if you are at a cocktail party or any social gathering, where several chit-chats are going on in small circles and you are stuck with a Mr/Ms Know-it-all, who is busy spouting boring bunkum over a singular topic that would probably put you to sleep at the get go; no matter how much you try to steer them into a more interesting topic?
Your ears will twitch and strain in a giraffic eavesdropping attempt to catch morsels of discussion going on across the room, where every body looks animatedly engaged, while you nod in mindless agreement to phrases and lip movement’s of a conversation that lost your attention 2 minutes after it started
I bet you, once you think it is polite enough, you would definitely find the quickest and possibly a dumb excuse; usually a visit to the rest-room always comes in handy, then make a fast get-away, only to slink back in and go over to join the merry crowd who are laughing off their heads and having a swell time.
I definitely don’t want to be that boring bunkum that you want to escape from!
I love to know bits and pieces of this and that, even if I don’t know all of them with the proficiency of an expert, at least let me know enough to hold a sensible, intelligent and entertaining discourse.![1448372992825[1]](https://acookingpotandtwistedtales.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/14483729928251.jpg?w=429&h=429)
Certainly, there are people who are designed to be experts in physics and geology and what not but, I am simply not one of them!
My interests are so diverse that sometimes I wonder when on Earth I am going to be able to experience doing them all!
Serious consideration on making a bucket list as long as ever, is currently on-going on my part, so that I can start prioritizing those things that I want to do or learn to the best of my ability and for my own pleasure.
Maybe it is due to my spirit that seeks to find beauty and fulfillment in everything that I see that pushes my desire for a bit of knowledge of diverse things.
I would rather have a spicy and flavorful life of bits and pieces of knowledge than a staid, cold custard of expertise.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
NaBloPoMo Prompt – November 25, 2015
Do you think its better to be a recognized expert for one thing or known to be really good at a lot of things.
Your adventurous palate is also, what makes your writing interesting. “Jacqueline of all Trades” love it!
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🙂 Thanks my dear Joyful Pam.
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I know a smidgen of a whole bunch and a mastery of most none.
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Me too 🙂
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Me three!! It is a pleasure to meet and be around all-traders 😁
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Definitely 🙂
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Well said! What a blessing it is that we can learn new things, no matter where we are in life 🙂 I always enjoy some of your thoughts while having my morning tea!
Enjoy the rest of your day,
Maria
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Now that is a nice thought 🙂 Sipping tea and assimilating some good thoughts. I totally agree that we can learn no matter where we are in life 🙂
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Yes, I thoroughly enjoy my mornings, and a selection of my favorite bloggers 🙂
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🙂
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This reminded me of Anand R’s Mr. Goyal!!!!
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Oh Yes!!
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Everyone keeps saying ‘Master your niche’, I think life is too short
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By every means, they are welcome to do so for sure; so long as they are really passionate about it and happy with themselves.
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Te hehe at “Jacqueline of all trades”, I like it! It depends for me, I love History and although, I feel more knowledge in one aspect, I like knowing a bit of all types of History from different places. I do not want to be an expert in all areas but enough to (like you said) carry out a descent conversation. One of the things I find attractive in people (especially men) is a intellectual stimulating mind. You do not need, many alphabets after your name (degrees) to make that happen but reading alot to understand helps :).
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I like intelligent men too. Not the degrees but the innate intelligence. Maybe that is one of the reasons I still love my husband 😉
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“Your ears will twitch and strain in a giraffic eavesdropping attempt…” Very nice! Oh, have I been there! I’m always happier to listen than to talk, but there has to be a little back and forth, and please, please, please don’t talk on and on about yourself. There are some people who can be very engaging on a single subject and not make it torture, but they are few and far between. I, also, would much rather talk to the generalists in the room. It suits my distracted brain.
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You are my type of person 🙂
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This is so funny because I’ve always called myself a Gilly of all trades!
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We are kin sisters you know 🙂
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Whether you’re an expert in one area or a jack of all trades, the moral of the story is to allow other people to talk and not hog the conversation with your own self-interest! A talkative know-it-all and a talkative jack-of-all-trades are one in the same!
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It’s very rude to simply carry on and leave the other person looking for the quickest exit 😉
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Also, I’m willing to listen to bragging and personal histories and accomplishments–but I like to have a chance to share MY stories. My little grandkid is as darling and smart as anyone’s, and I have adorable anecdotes too. I met someone the other day that was bragging about their parrots, but I never did work in about my sister’s parrot that learned to talk via a Cuban fisherman! Geez… 🙂
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🙂 😉 next time, you have to beat them to it. A conversation should be a two way thing and not a quest of killing their listener with their boring tales.
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its when ya have to stop and breathe…they are just lying in wait. 🙂
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