In the toughest of times, it can be difficult to draw upon positivity and inspiration. But, with a change of perspective, these issues can become a well-spring of not only creativity but also happiness!
Happiness in adversity! Source.
The first change of perspective is:
Plan Accordingly!
Once you fall upon hard times, it can be easy to become lost in a mire of misery and simply think it is inescapable. This isn’t true! If you’re experiencing money troubles, then working alongside a financial planner can help pull you back into the black, and get you back on your feet. Helpful resources exist for advice on how to choose a financial planner – this will not only help you in the short-term but can set you on your way for future success.
Planning doesn’t just apply to monetary issues though. It may be that the adversity you face is the disability of a loved one, maybe even your own child. This can seem overwhelmingly bleak, but if you plan thoroughly you can not only guarantee your own security but secure your loved one’s future and quality of life. Investing in a special needs trust is a neat and secure way of guaranteeing them a stable life, be they young or old, and will free you mentally to enjoy the best of times with them. Life isn’t all about finances, but securing them financially can safeguard future treatments, allowing you to nurture them with love with a reduced weight upon your shoulders.
This leads to the second shift in perspective:
Creatively Document Your Struggles and Successes!
Change can be a good thing! Change can help shift your perspectives and bring you back in touch with the things that really matter. Disabled people aren’t here to inspire us, but still, we can draw inspiration from the experiences of anyone who experiences and overcomes difficult times. If you yourself have difficulties you can channel them into creative outlets such as poetry, or even running an inspirational blog! People all over the world channel difficulty into uplifting stories of how they overcome setback after setback, and you too could join them!
Alongside a properly thought-out and implemented plan for recovery, documenting your journey can bring light in moments of darkness, and can itself become that which best drags you back into the good times! Studies exist as to the value of adversity in the creative mind, and this shows that – even if you’ve gotten into a dark spot of writer’s block (or the equivalent for your pursuit!) – you can haul yourself out with a fresh new perspective to boot.
You can channel yourself into a new hobby, with the little successes you win yourself pursuing those hobbies helping build towards overall wins in your wider life! Perhaps you’ll even take up cooking? Cooking yourself hearty meals can do absolute wonders for your state of mind, and as you get more confident in your abilities you’ll soon be making all sorts of fantastic meals! You’ll have gained yourself new skills, brought some positivity into your life and can even save yourself a little money – all whilst bringing you closer to your loved ones! After all, everyone loves a packed family table and a home-cooked meal! (Of course, you can always channel your efforts elsewhere – hand-knitted gifts go down a treat!)
A hearty meal does wonders for the frazzled mind. Source.
Great post as always
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such good reminders
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Thank You 🙂
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Good to take a step back and get an overview of one’s life and any challenges. Lovely post Jacqueline.
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Thank you my dear Janmalique. Each day we must make the best of our time and having an overview helps us stay positive.
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🙂
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Good reminders, Jacqueline.
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Brilliant collaboration! I especially like “Creatively Document Your Struggles and Successes”. Documenting (journaling) these humbles and gives me a sense of gratitude.
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Journaling is awesome Khaya. It grants me so much release it’s unbelievable.
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Totally agree with you 😊
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Thank you 🙂
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special needs fund is a good idea being that a special needs relatives will always need some type of support.
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They always always need our support.
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This is wonderful advice focusing on what you can do, not what you can’t, helps a great deal to get through adversity. When you talked about cooking, I’d agree for sure. I have really made and effort to find healthy and tasty meals to cook for supper both online and actually Jodi, whose blog I’m sure you follow, has been a great deal of help with some of therapy but tasty recipes she posts. Great piece, inspiring!
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That is so true! Meals along with great company is the best source of positivity! Please check this post out for the same: https://columntribe.wordpress.com/2017/10/23/a-break-from-everyday/
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This was a great post! Its true what you wrote about planning and visually seeing progress made – soooooo important to help you to keep moving forward 🙂
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Having waded my way through lots of downs to ups, visualizing helps a great deal. Thank you Angela 🙂
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This is such a lovely and positive post, full of brilliant, genuine advice and ideas. I really enjoyed reading!
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Thank you Pixie. I am glad you enjoyed reading it 🙂
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I love the encouragement in this blog post. Positivity is really something that cannot be overlooked. A large part of attaining positivity and happiness is not letting stress bother you, but by distracting yourself from it with things you love.
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❤❤ this, great post!
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Thank you 🙂
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I love these ideas, thank you for sharing! Very few understand the power of seeing the light in the hard situations, but the sun cannot rise each day without the darkness of night ☀️ Have an awesome day!!
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Thank you Kerumburg for your lovely comment. I like the quote you used ‘the sun cannot rise each day without the darkness of night.” Have a great day as well.
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