Blogging was an unknown concept. I had no concrete idea what it meant or where to start from. All I had was the desire to write beyond journalling in my diary. FaceBook had been my medium of sharing bits of my thoughts, which was a lot, but something about FaceBook just never settled well with me, so I didn’t share as much.
Backtrack to May 5th, 2015 after a friend encouraged me yet again to start blogging, I googled the word ‘blog’ and WordPress came up. I researched further and before I could say Hey! Presto my first post was published.
I started it afraid. My doubting part told me that since I wasn’t technically on-point I probably suck at it. I didn’t know what a good or bad blog was meant to look like. I didn’t know what ‘spam bots’ were. I had never bothered my life about SEO’s, didn’t know what it was and still don’t know exactly what that Greek word ‘search engine optimization,’ means in real terms. All I had and still have is the burning desire to write and to learn.
I wondered who in their right mind would bother to read what I wrote but after my initial trepidations and decision to leave the excuses, I decided to plod along knowing that I am writing for me.
Why am I back-tracking a bit, because, sincerely speaking, it truly amazes me to think that I started this blog from zero, knowing nothing, with no idea how to blog and what it would be like, to this point where I wonder why I took forever to get started?
Am I glad that I am here? Absolutely, yes.
I have made wonderful friends on this journey. My thoughts have grown exponentially. I’ve pushed myself beyond my comfort zone over and over again and without trying to sound too smart, I look back and say to myself ‘well done, you’ve not done badly, babe.‘
Just a quick view of my present circumstance as they also serve as a measure of growth online…
a. Published my first poetry book.
b. Published 1,178 posts
c. I gained a partner and looking for more 🙂
d. Joined several challenges.
e. I started two blogging challenges that you can join.
f. Attended a number of BU classes.
g. Did my first Nablopomo last November.
h. Hostess to an exciting, monthly blog party 😉
i. Started earning some cents in WordAds 😉
j. Many positive offline strides that my online presence brought about.
Stats: 92,807 views, Visitors: 22,842, Friends: 7,980, Likes: 53,277, Comments: 28,706
Well, there you have the bare bones. These days, this may not seem like much to some, but in my eyes, these are giant strides for me. To another 365 days, I say, let’s go!
Thank you all for choosing to stay with me. For your supportive hands of fellowship, I remain humbled in appreciation. Have a drink and a cupcake on my behalf 🙂
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Below is my first Poetry Book “Out of the silent breath” which is available on Amazon and Smashwords.
When you buy my book, you support me in an invaluable manner.
Dance to your heart’s delight my African child, until echoes of your stamping feet, beating heart; bright eyes, smiling lips; and waving hands, resonates over and over like thunder claps, reverberating throughout the Universe.
Just dance.
Congratulations on what I hope will be just the First Year of many.
xxx Hugs Galore xxx
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Thank you so much David. Yes indeed, the first year of many ((hugs))
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Happy first blogiversary Jacqueline!!! Congratulations on so many amazing achievements!! 😘
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Thank you so much Ritu. It’s been a beautiful experience and I am glad that I started. I got to meet beautiful people like you 🙂
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😚😚😚
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Congratulations and am glad you are enjoying yourself. I too am enjoying blogging and getting to know people from different parts of the world.
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Thanks a lot my dear. It’s a fantastic opportunity and experience 🙂
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Whooohoooo! well done! Congratulation Jacqueline.
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Thank you Leanne. It’s been fun 🙂
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Congratulations, Jacq!!! I am so proud of what you and your blog have become! You deserve all the love you are getting. You are a great soul. ❤
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Thank you my dear one. I am so glad we met in this place and who knows, the future holds greater things.
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Big congratulations to you Jackie. More ink to your writing pen! Cheers! 🙂
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Thank you dear Stella. I appreciate your support 🙂
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You’re most welcome! 🙂
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Congrats on such a successful blogging year, Jacqueline. So happy to know you. ❤️
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I feel as if I’ve known you for so long Van though we’ve never seen. Your interactions always leaves me feeling like a better human. Thank you very much 🙂
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💕 Such a sweet comment. Thanks, J.
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Great accomplishments in one year…and to many more! Congrats.
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Thank you very much my dear 🙂
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Wow, what an incredible year Jackie. I l know Im thrilled to have discovered your blog. When I was brand new to blogging and still today, your support in sharing my links and commenting has kept me motivated to keep putting my words out there. Congrats on all your success. ❤️Alexis
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Thank you so much Alexis. I believe that we all should support each other as much as is within our means to do so and I appreciate all my friends that I’ve met in this space ((hugs))
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Much continued success for the next year and the many more to follow! Congratulations!
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Thank you dear Meg 🙂
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Hello Jacq, you’ve accomplished a lot in a year. Congratulations my dear friend! *raise my glass* More grace, more friends to love you, more money for this noble profession of ours.
Your story is inspiring and I know in the next anniversary would leave you overwhelmed. *Big hugs*
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Thank you very much Deb. I really appreciate your warm support in this space and in due course, our vision and aspirations will come to be. Amen to your prayers and I wish you so much as well ((hugs))
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Congratulations Jackie! You are an enigma my darling Sis. Get ready for superlative adventures ahead. 😀
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Amen and Amen. Thank my dear one for all your support in this place. When I get to visit Lasgidi again, you are top of my list on people to meet up with 🙂
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I am so looking forward to that Sis! ❤
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Congratulations on your bloggiversary!
You have an amazing blog and I’m glad to be along on this journey with you! 🙂
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I am really glad to have started blogging and meeting great friends here. Who knows what the years hold before us. We might actually find ourselves meeting each other offline as well. My appreciations 🙂
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Oh yes! I would love to meet you offline. 🙂
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Me too 🙂
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Congratulations, Jackie! And thank you for your charming posts and all you do for the blogging community. BTW, love the music.
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Thank you dear Franci. I am really glad I started blogging and met wonderful beautiful souls like you 🙂
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What a lovely comment, Jackie, and the feeling is mutual. You are a true inspiration. 💐
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Fantastic, Jackie! Keep up the great work! I am enjoying your company. 🙂
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Thank you very much 🙂
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I love it Jackie! Your first sentence reminded me exactly of me a year and THREE days ago when I launched my WP blog. I am coming up on my first anniversary too…and I am so happy that I decided to switch from sharing a smattering of thoughts on FB to pouring my heart out on WP. Congratulations too on your first poetry book. It is a dream of mine. Just need to DO IT. 🙂
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Thank you Kat. It’s as if you know that I’ve been trying to connect with you. I saw a glimpse of your email address and as I said to myself okay, let me send Kat an email in the morning, I’ve been searching for it ever since. It simply vanished Please get to work on that dream. Dust up your written poems and I know that you’ve got a lot and getting it rolling. All the best with it. Please could you send me the email again?
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Happy Blogiversary, Jacqueline! It sounds like you’ve had a very busy year. 🙂
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Thank you Louise. It’s been surprisingly hectic and addictive too 😉
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Happy Blogaversary!
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Thank you Tikeetha 🙂
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Well done! I wish you the very best. 🙂
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Dalu sister me 🙂
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Congratulations on much success! Those stats are really impressive for your time blogging! Many and much more to come your way!☺️
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Thank you for your wonderful wishes my dear. I believe better years are ahead. Regards
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Party poppers are going off. Oh, that soundtrack scare me a bit. Congs my dear. With you all the way
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Thank you Joan. Sorry for scaring you with the music. I guess you wondered where it came from all of a sudden 🙂
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congratulations
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Thank you very much 🙂
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Congratulations Jackie! Hopefully soon I have your book :). Boy oh boy I love seeing progress.
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Thank you my dear friend. Progress is good and when you jubilate with others, you have cause to celebrate too 🙂
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Wow already one year and 1,178 posts? And I thought I was catching up on reading your posts but apparently I have a long way to go. I am also looking forward to reading your book. Great job girl, you are such an inspiration.
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My sister, my sister, I just saw your comment which had found it’s way to my spam box. Dalu nnem. Bless you and thank you for all the support 🙂
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Wow. Now how many of you, are you? There’s the Jacque who reads, the Jacque who writes, the Jacque who comments, the Jacque who gives parties, the Jacque who . . .
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Now, that’s an interesting question, ha,ha! Sometimes, I have no idea how I get through but I just do what I have to do, by His Grace 🙂 Thank you Oneta
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Congratulations on the milestones! I’m so excited for you, and I wish you many more years of successful blogging.
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Thank you very much Toby. I believe it will be a good year 🙂
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Congratulations Jacqueline. The bigger and better awaits in this new year.
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Thank you dear Deb. I hope and believe so too 🙂
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Awesome job Jacqueline. You seem very goal-oriented to me. I think that is good thing and you have accomplished much in one year. Keep going and great work 🙂
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Thank you very much Mandi. I try to set goals for myself and push to meet them as much as possible.
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Congratulations on your 1-year! I look forward to seeing more of your posts through the next year. Your talents are many, filled with awesome thoughts & ideas!! keep them coming!
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Thank you very much my dear friend. Blessed be and my kind regards.
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You are, and always have been, an inspiration to us all. Congrats on your anniversary, I certainly plan to stick around and watch you go all the way to the top!!! I’ll be slowly strutting behind you lol
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You are a darling friend. Thank you for all the support lady Tasha. Meanwhile, I wanted to tell you that I really like your e-shop. Very smart idea 🙂
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