A good number of us tend to search for all the excuses under the Sun to justify why we failed in something and to credit other peoples success with so many favourable conditions, which they supposedly didn’t earn.
That’s telling one’s self a lie, which is like eating comfort food to feel better about something.
Where there is a will, in there lies your way. Find it.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
Such truth in these words! Well-stated. You are a wise woman!
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Thank you Vijaya. I am trying to be wise 😉
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“Where there is a will, in there lies your way. Find it.” – words to live by. 🙂 You are indeed a wise woman.
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Thank you Melinda. I am trying to be wise 🙂
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You do not need to try; you already are! You’re very welcome 🙂
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OH this is very good! I love it!
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Thank you Michelle 🙂
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Oh boy this is so true!! You always think, oh they’re so lucky…ha it’s not luck at all but all of the things you wrote!! You can pretty much accomplish anything once you are ready to!! 🙂
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It really is Deb. Once a person makes up their mind, they will find a way to get it done.
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To tweak one of the scriptures, ‘God’s favor falls on the diligent and the excuse makers equally’. And maybe some people are looking at “success” with skewed eyes–it’s not about being rich; one can live on almost nothing and feel supremely wealthy of heart and soul. (Hope I’m not preaching too much!)
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Exactly. We are all given equal favour, it’s our usage that is unequal. Nope you are not preaching too much.
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🙂
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Amen! This is so true! Too many seek the success of others, never realizing, nor wanting to make, the sacrifices that person had to make to get there. Each person’s journey is different, and regardless the trials we face or the costs we pay, if we have the will to make it happen, it can! Don’t blame other people for your failures, mishaps or missed opportunities. Yes, tragedies do come, and they can alter our course for a while, but that does not mean the dream must die. It is what we do with the opportunities we have today that determine where we will be tomorrow! 😉 Good stuff. Thanks for sharing! 🙂
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Thank you for these very insightful comments. I wish others would see it as it is.
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So true!
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Thanks dear 🙂
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You’re welcome!
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