On the day that you wake up
Doubting yourself
On the day that you wake
Wondering if you are doing okay as a parent
On the day that you wake up
Feeling that you suck at being a mother
On the day that you wake up
Worrying if you are raising them right
On the day you wake up confused
Not knowing what the next step should be
On the day that you wake up
Wanting to cry instead of laugh or smile
On the day that you wake up
Huddled and not wanting to climb out
It takes the lovingly made card
Of small hands
The painstaking drawing of hearts and kisses
Of the warm hug and the beautiful words
That sounds like music in your ears
‘Mummy you are the bestest ever!’
‘I made this for you’
For you to learn,
That you are doing well
That you are the bestest, despite your shortcomings
Those words are the turn key
That makes you climb out and wear your smile with joy
To flip pancakes with oodles of syrup
Sniffing and thanking God for these young arms.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
This is endearing. Beautiful and heartfelt. Your lovely little post made me smile today.
Here’s hoping you’ll check out my blog too at https://thewhimsicalandwanderingsoul.wordpress.com/
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Thank you very much for visiting and commenting. My regards.
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Pleasure it is.
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Thank you very much 🙂
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Heartwarming!
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It did warm my heart 🙂 Thank you
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Lovely and very true too! 🙂
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Thank you Judy 🙂
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This is absolutely lovely! Thank you for sharing these words of encouragement to all mommies. ❤️❤️❤️
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Thank you too. We need such little encouragements often 🙂
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Absolutely! 🙂
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Reblogged this on Simply Me and commented:
For all mothers. 🙂
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Thank you my dear friend 🙂
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Good stuff is worth sharing, and you’re most welcome. 🙂
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What a blessing–kids love so BIG!
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Indeed, they are awesome blessings 🙂
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🙂
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Lovely. I’m still learning from my children.
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Indeed, we can learnt a lot from them. Thank you Indira 🙂
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So sweet, Jacqueline, and so meaningful. I don’t save much, but I have all of the homemade cards that my kids wrote/drew for me as they were growing up. They are priceless. Now as adults, they get a few laughs when I drag them out, but they are so special to me. 💝
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They are really very thoughtful and you’ve just given me an idea. I am going to start saving them. This one and his words really made me feel good 🙂
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Yep…I asked my kids to not ever buy me a “Hallmark” card. Even into their adult years…I get the handwritten ones. 💕
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That’s a good idea. I will inculcate that. Something handwritten is truly better 🙂
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This will surely make a lot of mother cry. ❤ so lovely, Jacq.
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It did make me sniffle and smile too. Thank you Rosema 🙂
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Yes! I agree!. 🙂
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This is beautiful 🙂 I love this one 🙂 Such a beautiful card 🙂 Being a mother is one of the greatest blessing 🙂 I loved your words 🙂
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Thank you NJ. It’s really worth it 🙂
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True 🙂
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This is so sweet! Certainly how most mothers feel.
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One of the World’s best and most tedious jobs. Never ending 🙂
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That’s true. It is never ending…very rewarding in spite of it being one of the most “thankless” jobs.
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That’s true. The rewards outweighs the thanklessness.
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Beautiful poem, Jacqui. Very heart warming.
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Thanks Amanpan. He doesn’t know how much of a smile his gesture put on my heart 🙂
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Heartwarming. Children can turn the worst day into a beautiful one.
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Definitely true. Thanks kind Sir 🙂
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this one warmed my heart. It’s been a hard couple of weeks. But I’ll slog on with a smile thanks to your poem. 🙂
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I am glad you like it. It’s been a hard week too for me. Thank you Melinda 🙂
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You’re welcome. I hope we both have better weeks to come though that blizzard looming on the horizon makes me wonder…
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I hope so too. Really, this time should pass like already.
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yes it should 🙂 and it will. We must slog on in spite of it. 🙂
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Definitely the best choice.
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😀 though often the harder one 🙂
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True
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🙂
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A very lovely poem. Children are such a blessing! 😊
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Truly they are 🙂
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I’m impressed and inspired, Jacqueline.
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Thank you Micki 🙂
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That lovely card is a token to show you that you’re doing a wonderful job! Children have a way of letting us know through their hugs, kisses, I love you’s….it’s all a clue!
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Really true my dear. It’s reassuring 🙂
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So beautiful Jacqueline! And so true!
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Thank you dear 🙂
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Awwww..So sweet. It’s so true.
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Thank you Jahnavi 🙂
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