Life is a constant flux of change and naturally as all humans are prone to, mine has evolved in little and huge ways.
My cycles have gone through mountain peaks and deep valleys, through Tropics and Savannah and each evolution has contributed to my story; to my growth in personality and maturity of mind; to the pathway of better understanding of myself as a complete entity.
Some changes have been premeditated while some, were thrust on me by Providence, but the most important aspect of these changes has been the strengthening of my inner mental core, resilience and spiritual walk.
For close to two decades, I have gone from a care-free single, all career guns blazing young lady to become a wife and proud mother. From formal employment, to part-time/voluntary service and self-employment/entrepreneurship.
In this space of time, I have migrated within 3 different Continents and when you are talking about leaving; I just left Texas to United Arab Emirates a couple of moons ago!
It has been a major shift especially in culture mentality. I am still in the bid of catching my breath even though I know that my sojourn in this place will not tarry for too long.
The challenges that such changes predisposes you to, which goes beyond leaving your comfort zone and familiar grounds to places of new beginnings are numerous, that the experience alone can constitute a book.
However, the trick in handling these things, is to keep a very broad and positive mind. Make a concerted effort to have a positively motivated outlook and become a sponge that soaks in all the good vibes around you.
That way, you will acquire the best experience that your life is teaching you at that point in time.
I am presently focusing on self-development and as I continue to transform, my hope is to cascade my support outwards to others and also to persevere in my efforts as a writer.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
In response to The Daily Post prompt If You Leave
Life is a series of beginnings and endings. We leave one job to start another; we quit cities, countries, or continents for a fresh start; we leave lovers and begin new relationships. What was the last thing you contemplated leaving? What were the pros and cons? Have you made up your mind? What will you choose?
Jacqueline!
That’s really a Roller Coaster Personal Story only brave women can ride.
Pats to you my Dear!
Let all good things come to YOU.
Love to You.
Shiva
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Dear Shiva,
Thank you so much for those encouraging words.
Your gems of words are like soothing balm. Love and light to you too 🙂
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I think you are doing the right thing by getting as much as you can from your experiences 🙂
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Thanks Edwina. I think it is best too. Kind regards 🙂
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Life is change no matter if we remain in one place or pursuing change by moving from place to place. It’s best to embrace change and also, embrace the God who never changes. From what I read of you in your writing, you’re doing a bang-up job. I see you as a woman in pursuit of excellence and I believe you will go far.:0)
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Oh Pam, you are such a gem. Thank you for such brilliant words. May the Lord continue to use you to water others and your leaves shall remain evergreen. Kind regards
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Thanks for sharing your journey. You are such an inspiration ☺
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Thanks lady Kay. I appreciate your encouragement 🙂
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Personally, I think you should send your readers presents from the different continents…
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That’s a good idea 😉
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You are so right life is a journey! mama
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Indeed it is. When I read your journal, it always amazes me 🙂
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life up and down and all over lol
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True 🙂
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You are truly an amazing woman…and even that is an understatement. You are a force to be reckoned with…truly an inspiration. And to think…you were a stones throw away from me when we first became acquainted now you are thousands of miles away…Lord knows where you’ll end up next!!!
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Truly, only God knows 🙂 Thank you so much for that huge compliment.Kind regards dear friend and have a beautiful day 🙂
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A lady with courage to cut off so many ends and start new beginnings. The Bible refers to us moving from “glory to glory.” Exciting, isn’t it?
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It is exciting! I love that analysis, moving from glory to glory 🙂
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They are three very different continents but people are the same all over!
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Very true Sis, though here they smile less!
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What an inspirational post! You are amazing! 😄
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Thank you. I try a day at a time 🙂 I admire your tenacity and consistent efforts too. Have a beautiful day 🙂
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I totally agree. One day at a time is our best chance on happiness. Thank you for your kind compliment. Have a blessed day as well!
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You are most welcome 🙂
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Well done Jackie! Very inspiring.
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Thank you Jeanne. I appreciate your words 🙂
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Thanks for sharing some of your most personal thoughts, Jacqueline. You’re an inspiration!
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You really do me an honour with your words Jack. I appreciate them. Thank you and kind regards 🙂
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You are very inspiring Jacqueline. Love reading your stories.
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Dear Pam, thank you so much for your support. I do appreciate it. Kind regards 🙂
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You do it all with a positive Jacqueline and always leave us readers something with inspiration and hope even if it was not your direct intention. I am happy I met you via Poetry.
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I really love this comment. Thank you so much and indeed, I am glad that we met.
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