I do exclaim quite a bit, even in real life! I think we Africans tend to like a bit of drama, with all the Ahs! Ohs! Hei! O’s, Ehh’s! Hmm’s! that dots our spoken words to emphasize the thoughts that goes with the words.
So genetically, I practice this as a true African to help you get the drift of my thoughts!
I very well can’t add all the hmm’s and hah’s to my writing or can I?
I think those punctuation marks were created for a purpose and I am not even sure that I am using enough of them!
Therefore, when I am making an expression that goes on and on and I am not sure how to do that, I use continuous spots or should I say dots! It represents a pause……., so that you can mull over that thought!
I love little bits of colours here and there ( sometimes, I think I am a magpie that is forever attracted to shiny stuff).
I love to smile too! Even on paper. 😊 Well, not on my thesis, I guess Master Prof. will not find that very impressive and will assume that it is a lame attempt at buttering up 😕
When I write, a lot of times, if I don’t have my headphones on, I say out my words as I type or write them, as though you are in here with me and I try to simulate your answer and how we would twist the topic to 7 Sundays.
My pencils do suffer anxiety attacks from not knowing which of them I will chew to bits the following day and my keyboard has suffered a nervous breakdown a time or two.
My family have grown used to the queer awesomeness of this Lady of the Manor and my husband’s roll of his eyeballs when my laughter gets raucous makes me share tidbits of juicy bits from this awesome community.
Sometimes, most times, I have to reduce my words when I am bursting with so much to say. I keep silent in my head to allow you get in a word sideways as well.
It is a shame that the banter we share has to zip through the cyberspace, bypassing some
word- nappers across all the oceans before making it safely to you and sometimes it takes forever to arrive.
No, I am not a mad-hatter, but I do have my writing and real side quirks which makes me who I am.
That’s some of my quirkiness (I hear that they grow as you get older). So let me know about yours.
Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
In response to The Daily Post prompt By The Dots
We all have strange relationships with punctuation — do you overuse exclamation marks? Do you avoid semicolons like the plague? What type of punctuation could you never live without? Tell us all about your punctuation quirks!
A friend in my writing group is always telling me I don’t punctuate enough but I tell her it’s just my writers voice.
Or do I mean,
A friend, in my writing group, is always telling me that I don’t punctuate enough, but I tell her that it’s just my writer’s voice!
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I can understand that perfectly! We all have our unique writing voices and they can’t be the same. Mimic each other, yes, but never the same 🙂
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And my writing group only allows one exclamation mark per day. So – here it is!
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Why would they restrict such pleasure!! 😉
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And I never really listen!!!!!!!!!
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I can see that!!
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Well even your post has a quirk , I am thinking, it says displaying (then bunch of numbers).jpg but I don’t see a picture? in a tan bar above where you begin your :I do exclaim quite a bit, “////Just thought I would let lyou know! I have a quirky computer, a quirky brain, and my hands are on strike but to answer the question….I don’t have a lot of patience and sometimes posted before reading it aloud oopsie 😀 Do enjoy seeing your posts they motivated me to keep going at it here
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Thanks dear Sarah. I detected the quirky photo and added it back. I love reading from you. It never fails to leave a smile on my face 🙂
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Yea! I like the picture!
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Thanks dear friend 🙂
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My son dubbed me a magpie because of my penchant for sparkle and bling. I also, have thoughts too big for my mouth so I write but many of the things I ruminate over never make it to the keyboard either, they are like a fast rolling river. I’m only able to capture and share a few. When I edit, I always remove a few !!!! but I’m wondering what it would be like to free my inner magpie? :0) You are a treasure Jacqueline!!!!! Never surrender those characteristics that make you unique.
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Thank you Pam my dear fellow Magpie 🙂 Your words are blinging treasures to collect 😉 I know what you mean when you have to edit and remove a few!!!!
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I tend to overuse commas. When I write a first draft, I just write, not thinking about any rules. Then I go back, and while trying to stay true to me, I try to shorten the sentences a little..
I enjoyed your post! As usual 🙂
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Thanks my dear lady. I love your candid expressions always 🙂
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Thank you! You are a very good story teller. I’m working on that part. Is English your first language? It’s not my first language.
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Yes it is my first language.It doesn’t show that you are working on your English. You are really doing well.I read your post with the photos and except you tell someone, there is absolutely no reason to find any fault. Thank you for the lovely compliment. I am glad. Kind regards
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Thank you! It is getting easier, and easier to express myself in English. Right now everyone around me speaks English. Soon that will change. My plan is that my blog, and daily interactions in English is going to help me to keep the language alive. Have a wonderful day Jacqueline !
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It can only get better 🙂 Take care of yourself and that lovely angel of yours.
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Thank you 🙂
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Hahaha! Yes Oo! We Africans do tend to include very much drama in how we speak (and type) and that’s what I love about us. We are always very enthusiastic, on all topics.
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True, true 🙂 I think it comes from the rhythm within
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And we cockneys have the wonderful gift of applying two negatives, which generally would make a positive, but if you were born in the East End of London, it doesn’t apply. So – we ain’t got nuffing – which in english tranlated would obviously be “we havn’t got nothing” which in the Queen’s english should, of course be, “we havn’t got anything”. Isn’t english complicated and especially if you are a cockney. One of the reasons I only speak cockney to other cockneys.
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I do love hearing cockney though half of the time I struggle to understand what is being said. Reading it is easier and English language has its inexplicable sides. You are very enriched in languages Ma’am
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And now to learn pigeon english, because the floor comes up and hits me (I don’t fall down) 🙂
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🙂 now that would be interesting when you speak pigeon English.
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ha ha I love this!! I love your posts and your !!!
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Oh Mama, thank you so much!! I am hopeful that I will meet you one day!!!
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yes me too dear! 🙂 mama Lynz
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🙂
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“That’s some of my quirkiness (I hear that they grow as you get older).” Oh, my! If my quirkiness continues to grow… Whatever will I do?!!!
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Really food for thought! We’ll just patch along with you….!!!
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I like exclamation marks as well!! I think it is good to have a bit of expression and drama (not too much of the drama though)!!! 🙂
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I noticed!! A little drama is good. It adds flavour you know 🙂
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Indeed it does Jacqui 🙂
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🙂
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If I go back through my writing, and my responses to friends’ FB posts, I see lots of exclamation points and dots! I’ve tried to slow it down after one friend said she felt I was yelling at her all the time. Hah!
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Hey! No one should spoil the fun of exclaiming 😉 Well, I guess we should use them in moderation.
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Loved your post Jacqueline! ! Lots of ☺😊😀😁😂😃😄😅😆!!! you gave me today 😉
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Thanks my dear. I am happy to put a smile on your face 🙂
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Brilliant!😄Love it!!! Wholeheartedly agree – let’s live our lives with exclamation marks!!!😁😂😄
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Definitely exclamations!!! and no questions, please??? :):):)
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I love your enthusiasm! This post made me smile 🙂
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Thank you for visiting Reyna. I appreciate your time and comments. Kind regards 🙂
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Yes, you certainly fit the !!!! to a “t”. My punctuation of choice is the “to be continued mark” ……. not sure what that’s about. lol
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🙂 🙂 you will figure it out “to be continued mark “…. soon enough.
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I knew you as lady of words; now I know you as a lady of dots, lines, curly-ques, and all the other stuff sort of like this ! …. ? ‘ ” ) * , : ; And how did you do those little boxes?.
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I like that……It makes you who you are……..I like using the dots in-between, like this……..it separates my thoughts and hopefully gives the person reading a pause for contemplation. Or maybe…….I just like it. 🙂 It is me, my brand in life. Hugs
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I can see that you like….. and I use …… as a pausing step occasionally too….. 🙂
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It’s nice to know more about you.
Lol, I exclaim a lot too, my spoken words are coloured with lots of “Ahs! Ohs and Eh-hens”. I’ve even started writing with Ohs! and Ahs!, for how else will I express the emphasis of my emotions on paper?
I recently saw a joke about the various meanings of ‘”Eh-hen!” in Nigerian conversations:
1. Eh-en: I am shocked
2. Eh-en: I told you so
3. Eh-en: And so what?!
4. Eh-en: Finally! ( as in Eureka!)
5. Eh-en: Can I help you?
6. Eh-en: Please continue
7. Eh-eh: As I was saying
8. Eh-en: Really?
9. Eh-hen: Is it true?
10. Eh-hen: See yourself?
11. Eh-hen: No wonder
Enjoy the rest of the day! 😀
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It’s nice to know more about you.
Lol, I exclaim a lot too, my spoken words are coloured with lots of “Ahs! Ohs and Eh-hens”. I’ve even started writing with Ohs! and Ahs!, for how else will I express the emphasis of my emotions on paper?
I recently saw a joke about the various meanings of ‘”Eh-hen!” in Nigerian conversations:
1. Eh-hen: I am shocked
2. Eh-hen: I told you so
3. Eh-hen: And so what?!
4. Eh-hen: Finally! ( as in Eureka!)
5. Eh-hen: Can I help you?
6. Eh-hen: Please continue
7. Eh-hen: As I was saying
8. Eh-hen: Really?
9. Eh-hen: Is it true?
10. Eh-hen: See yourself?
11. Eh-hen: No wonder
Enjoy the rest of the day! 😀
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Eh-hen! Exactly! You see what I am saying 😁
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Lol XD
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🙂
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I love your happy exclaiming drawing (self portrait?) and I love the image of you as a magpie
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Yes it is a self portrait 😉 Thank you very much.
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I enjoy the humour in this post. I abuse poor :D, well it is because I always get things to make me grin :D.
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Thanks my friend. We do have to have lots of humor to look at life in the face 🙂
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