I have learnt that your happiness is that which you seek diligently. That you should grab it with both hands and guard it like chosen treasure.
That the state of happiness can be a cultivated state of mind, by applying simple but life changing attitudes.
- A forgiving heart and a generous spirit.
- Learning to turn mistakes into lessons.
- Always revert within and seek your inner peace.
- Leave the sweating of the small stuff behind.
- Be grateful and thankful always.
- Learn to love yourself and cascade it to others.
- Build relationships.
- Drop the mental slavery and stop dwelling on the past. It will never come back.
- Spend your time on meaningful ways of looking forward to the future.
- Rough it through even though it might start out difficult, that situation too shall pass.
Let me share with you a little article I wrote a while ago:
Your real home lies within you.
Not the bricks and mortar house of glamor that you reside in.
All painted and glossy with every top of the range appliance that money can buy.
That my friend, is just your physical abode.
Your real home lies within you,
Yet the home within you is neglected, in shambles and in quandary,
That even a stray pet would not want to live in there,
Take care of the real home that lies within you;
Fill it with good things,
A large portion of love,
A fresh harvest of thanksgiving
A handful of forgiveness,
Some tablespoons of honesty,
A jug of faith,
A dash of loyalty,
An ounce of friendship,
Three tablespoons of tenderness,
A whole shake of patience,
One big barrel of laughter
And a large dose of prayer.
Blend it all together, and bake it in the oven of your heart with a pan of Hope until it is well done.
Serve your guests daily with generous portions,
And your real home will definitely gleam with splendor.
© Jacqueline Oby-Ikocha
In response to: Writing 101 – Day 7: Hook ’em with a quote
Oh so true – “Your real home lies within you” but why is it often so hard to find?
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I guess it is because we are too busy look everywhere else ….
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That is just beautiful, thank you!
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Thank you Maddy 🙂
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This is great Jacqueline! Your quote summarizes the thoughts that you have included. Nice! 😀
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Thanks my dear lady. I appreciate 🙂
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You’re so welcome! 😀
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Inspirational post.. You have to find your happiness in yourself always!
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A total yes! It can’t be bought in the shops. Thank you for taking the time to read it. I appreciate 🙂
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Reblogged this on MLou's Photography Blog and commented:
Your Real Home Lies Within You ~ Great Read!
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Thank you my lady 🙂
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Very wonderful post!
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You are my greatest cheerleader Ma’am. I love your enthusiasm and appreciate you very much. Hugs 🙂
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awwe you are a talented strong lady! hugs!!!
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🙂
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Hey Jacqueline, I’m nominating you for the Infinity Dreams Award! Hope you accept it and if you do, you can know more it here – https://theidlerchannel.wordpress.com/2015/09/14/the-infinity-dreams-award/ ! Happy blogging! 🙂
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Thank you for the nomination. I will look into it 🙂 Kind regards
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Bravo! Beautifully written! Totally agree with your views. Love your life changing attitude 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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You are welcome 🙂
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Wow….
Lovely .
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Thank you very much. I appreciate
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Nice!!! It’s indeed within and not without…
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Yes it is. Meanwhile, I read help I am the other woman’s ending and was relieved she didn’t get up to mischief. Will send in my comments.
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I was also glad myself…
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🙂
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Love the truth about a home and keeping the inner so welcoming and filled with love😊
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Dalai Lama is a wise sage.
Such beautiful things–patience, silence, tenderness and joy.
Your post is inspirational and I love it 🙂
Thanks Jacqueline
Love and light ❤
Anand 🙂
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Yes he is. Thank you for stopping by my friend 🙂
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It’s my pleasure 🙂
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😉
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That my friend, is just your physical abode…..i love it Jacqueline..!
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Thanks my dear. I appreciate your time 🙂
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A beautifully written post. I particularly like the idea of love cascading.
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Yep. Makes me feel as if we should have a love shower that you can turn on and then you soak it all in. Thanks for visiting 🙂
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Keep shining. 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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🙂
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“Drop the mental slavery and stop dwelling on the past. It will never come back.” – I love this!
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Never has and never will. I remind myself each time I go off into the doldrums. Thank you for taking the time to read. I appreciate 🙂
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I don’t know what to say.. super meaningful.Each of word touching my heart. Thank you for this ms.jacquie:-)
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You are most welcome 🙂 Glenda, thank you for taking the time to read it, I appreciate that 🙂
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You’re always welcome ms.jacquie…
Good morning:-)
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You’re always welcome..ms jacque
Good morning:-)
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Good morning Glenda. I hope you have a fine day today 🙂
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Hello ms.jacque how are you?
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Hello Glenda. It’s a good day today 🙂
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Hello ms.jacque..lets some coffee..
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Thanks for the offer 🙂 I shall brew myself a cup
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Okey… Good night..sweet dreams.:-)
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You too 🙂
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Morning…
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Good morning Glenda 🙂 Hope you had a good evening? Do have a lovely day today 🙂
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Good night my dear friend..have a sweet dreams:-)
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You too my dear. God bless 🙂
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You’re always welcome ms.jacque.
Good morning:-)
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Beautiful post! I will be sharing this one.
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You are most welcome with all pleasure. Thank you for investing you time to visit my blog. I appreciate 🙂
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Love that recipe. Best cake ever!
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Always turns out just right 😉
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wow that was beautiful,and really true!
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Thanks a lot for reading and taking the time to comment. I appreciate that 🙂
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Reblogged this on Green Padawan and commented:
Inspiration for the day…
“Spend your time on meaningful ways of looking forward to the future.”
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Thank you for your gesture. Very much appreciated.
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Very true, very clear, and one would think since we are with ourselves 24/7/365 that we would see we need to Do these things!
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Yes indeed, we do! No two ways about it. Go get it girl. Hugs Sarah you always make me smile
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I don’t know what happiness is. I feel sad all the time, and it gets worse as I get older. Reading this post makes me think. Is it because I dwell in the past? I think I’m too busy with things which are out of my control all my life..
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I think that is a possibility. Why not make a list of 10 positive things that you will dwell on each day. Practice that for 2 weeks and see how it works. Make a conscious effort to do it irrespective of what is happening around you 🙂 I wish you the best
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